Hi all, my OH has agreed that I can buy her a sex toy. I’ve always wanted her to feel better than I can give when it comes to the bedroom.
She’s always been unsure about them in the past and has told me she’s never used one before (even though she used to be a party planner for a LH high street competitor) Although it sounds as if she’s been discussing the subject with her friends who have all been talking about their toys and preferences.
She has always been a fan of vaginal stimulation (as apposed to clitoral (although a little bit of that does make her wet)
What toys would people recommend for usability, feeling, reliability and good for a beginner (for use as a couple and solo play)
As a first toy I would say a bullet, they are very good price and seem to get good reviews. Alternatively a small vibrator ( I say small as you don’t want to frighten her ). Another alternative would be a wand.
Wand for us as it can be used on both of you although if she prefers internal stimulation possible a vibrator, satisfierbut try a cheap toy 1st to see what works before splashing out
My first thought was a wand too like this, or a bullet.
But as you mentioned vaginal and g spot maybe a rabbit would be better suited to the task and can also be used as a wand or bullet when playing as a couple
Seeing as you’ve not set a budget and this is your first steps I would also suggest the play kits for around £80 if you can afford it as it’s got many different toys to try and you might find one works best out of the 5-7 different types in the kit.
Our first toys years ago we brought a couples weekend kit .which a few different things to try and see what we liked best once we found that then can go upgrade .
