Being denied a wee

Is anyone else into people being denied a wee, squirming etc? I know nothing here is weird but am I on my own with this one!

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I like the desperation thing as I’m into watersports, but it’s not good for the body to do this all the time.

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No it’s not particularly good for you, but I do like seeing someone desperately need to go now and again.

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Yes I agree with you it’s sexy and hot to see it, especially if they don’t make it in time, playing out different situations is always fun.

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My husband is and I stll love to hate him for it. We were at a bar during the Bristol Harbourside Festival once and you had to have a stamp on the back of your hand to be able to use the bathroom, but since I wasn’t allowed near the bar (hubby didn’t want me getting squished), I didn’t have one. So hubby offered to press his stamp to my hand in the hope that some ink would transfer, but realising he had all the power he made me beg in front of our friends. I really thought I was going to pee myself! I remember the relief when I finally got to the bathroom but this deep sense of submission, and yes, arousal as well.

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I love it when it gets to the stage where they have to use their hand to hold it in in desperation.
Not quite a sexy scenario but I had to have a scan yesterday. I had to drink pints of water and not wee. Then my bladder wasn’t full enough for the scan so I had to drink more and wait again for my turn. I thought I was going to burst especially when they were pressing on my stomach and bladder to do the scan.

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There is a term for this that I will probably spell wrongly, Omoroshi ?

Learnt that in a very unusual way, with my oldest friend walking back from the pub near his house after an early evening drinking session (actually two pints) and realised I wasn’t going to make it back in time. Suddenly I began walking funny and wincing, he started laughing and said there’s a Japanese term for that and told me the word.

Oh btw, didn’t make it and had to use a hedge a few seconds later….

He is really into Japan and their culture, learnt the language and even had their honeymoon in the country. It took ages for him to admit they’d tried an Onsen there when on holiday as they are both rather prudish though and never open up about anything personal.

An aside : his favourite J-Pop band is called Babymetal. and I find them quite unusual to say the least.

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@RachelW

Have you ever tried the combination of your enjoyment of pain and the need to pee? Also PSA remember electricity and pee don’t mix well

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No I haven’t tried that. I will make a note!

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I love it. But I’m also a diaper lover so love being made to hold it until I wet myself by accident. Such a nice feeling

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I agree, don’t aim at the third rail

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Holding your pee is a sure fired way of ending up with a Uti. If i have to go i go and god help anyone that gets in my way. :grin:

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Granted I did hit my husband with the “if I end up with an infection, you’re buying my Canesoasis” line but it didn’t work. He knows as a rule not to mess me around though, I can be rather… persuasive when I want to be :joy:

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If hubby had done that to me i would have turned on the water works and embarrassed him in front of everyone. Make them think he is such a nasty person, he would never do it again.

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Which water works :joy:

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Really, not those sort of water works. I mean crying, his friends will think what a bas***d. I am devious i know.

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In the spirit of this question, no, I’ve never been denied a wee.

In reality, I have though.

Long ago while married to my 1st wife, we’d drive 17 hours straight, through the night, with our 3 young children and our dog to go visit her parent’s as her mother was sick and nearing the end of her life.

I did most of the driving, sometimes all. I would have liked her to drive more but she didn’t want to. I’d say I was tired and I needed her to drive, she still wouldn’t.

Now about being denied a wee. I’d drink caffeine on the trip to help keep me awake during the night and of course I’d need to use the restroom at some point.

My 1st wife didn’t want me to stop unless we needed gas as she didn’t want the children to wake up if I only stopped to go “wee”.

Yes, she ruled our roost. Way back then I wasn’t able to stand up for myself, set proper boundaries etc. due to my upbringing and childhood and things like this continued on in my relationship with my first wife. I didn’t know what I didn’t know. I walked on eggshells around her.

So in that way, I’ve been denied a wee before, many times as we made several 17 hour trips there and then back home during the last few years of my MIL’s life.

I’ve had children, so this is impossible. I wee twice in the night every night aswell. Yet my OH can sleep 8 hours and not get up once :sweat_smile:

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What happens when you’re allowed to wee or do you deny till you pee yourself?

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Deny until you really absolutely have to go. Not keen on peeing myself!

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