I haven’t tried wa balls yet, and I’m really wanting to. Do you recommend a specific brand and also what has been the best thing to do whilst they are inside. My husband and I are quite adventurous and are willing to try something new.
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This is Al’s OH. Our Ben Wa balls are six on the strung, small to larger. We both like them. Use lube and be clean. He inserts them sometimes while he’s giving me head. But doesn’t pull them out till I’m near climax and he pulls them out slow. I use them on him too. I’ll insert them then I suck his penis. When he says he’s getting close to cum I start to pull them out. His butt hole squeezes when he cums makes it fun to pull on them!
I have Smartballs Duo by Fun Factory which are a nice feeling silicone. They feel good but aren’t going to orgasm or anything, more of just a tease that keeps my aware of the area. I sometimes put them in if we are going out for the night to the pub and then let him know that I have them inside which turns him on a lot.
These s something of a tease to be had going shopping or for a walk with Ben Wa balls in place. Having them in both front and back and a heavier set for the guys butt can lead to excessive fun.
Nipping down to a secluded spot to easy the issues for pre cum and over excitement due to the jiggle of a country hike.
Or the constant hot seat effect while people watching as you sit and have a coffee.
It doesn’t matter what brand the size and weight is the concern depending on your muscle control. Yku might both find light weight is best to start with unless you’ve been exercising those pelvic muscles and can carry the larger from the start. And as mentioned the design is a major factor as you can have multiple balls ina line, round ones and egg shaped also some are solid and some have counterweights inside. And there’s vibrating ones too.
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I think it really depends on what you’re wanting them for and what you want to achieve.
If you want them for training your pelvic floor and working the kegel muscles then you want to go as small and as heavy as you can. You might need to start with slightly larger, not so heavy ones until your muscles strengthen though.
If you want them for pleasure and foreplay then large enough to substantially feel and with a jiggle ball movement definitely wins out. These wont tone your muscles as you’re doing very little work to keep them in, but they feel great.
My favourite two sets of each of these types were both from Lovehoney but my small, free standing metal ones aren’t sold anymore. Essentially though they are very similar (I think) to this 50 shades set but just two solid orbs without the retrieval cord. Maybe slightly smaller but a little lighter in weight. These 50 shades ones will be a workout for fairly established muscles but they’re probably not high on the pleasure scale (at least to me). I’ve not worn my small, free standing ones outside my house.
The set I recommend most to people for fun though are these XL Jiggle Balls. They are not a kegel exercise, you do not use muscles to keep them in because they are huge!!! They jiggle delightfully, are way bigger than any vibrating egg I’ve tried and are probably my favourite toy for wearing on a night out because they leave me very wet and ready when I get home. My review of these can be read here if you’re interested.
I’m also going to throw a tag out to @FortySomethingWife who is the forum queen of ben wa ball knowledge and has way more sets than myself and will have information to share if she is about.
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I tend to use a machine now for workouts of an evening rather than benwa . I do however continue to use larger jiggles for fun. I also suggest the same xl set as you linked 
I think the machines are so much quicker to get results from in terms of toning your muscles down there. I was a daily Ben wa wearer until I invested in tech.
We now have a range of xxl jiggles for pure fun and to wear whilst out to set the mood .
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