Well away to start my anal sex journey with my husband after trying some DP on my own.
Can anyone suggest a butt plug? Plus, what are the main purposes of one for a woman apart from stretching you out a little? I want to either use a g spot vibrator in my vagina and have my husband’s penis anally or vibrating butt plug and PIV. Any experiences on which is better?
Any advice/ experiences appreciated 
If your butt plug vibrates too it will increase the sensations in the nerve endings around your anus. Adding to the vibrations / sensations.
If not a vibrating one it.may fill you up more…
I’ll just preface that I can only comment from my experience with my wife and her preferences…
Primary purposes that my wife uses a plug is to prep for anal - warm up for entry.
Secondary benefit is that with a larger plug inserted it does narrow her vagina and I can feel the “bulb” of the plug as my head and shaft pass through on the other side. Use of a vibrating plug could result in increased stimulation to your partner’s penis as he slides in and out, too. We haven’t used a vibrating plug for wife yet so I can’t speak to it for women. For me, I enjoy vibrations around the outside, but I love them inside against my prostate (obviously) which is more sensitive I imagine than the tissue you have without a prostate but probably still enjoyable.
For recommendations, we have a set of varied sizes that’s a great way to get into it. The ones we have didn’t come from LH, but I wouldn’t probably recommend this particular set as they’re pretty cone-shaped and get increasingly longer as they get thicker, but not necessarily in an awesome way. If I were starting over from scratch I would probably go for a set like this as starters..
I also got this vibrating one as a freebie with an order and it’s very beginner-friendly and kind of middling as far as vibes power.
I’ll also de-recommend this one that I bought on black friday special and is legitimately too small to be of use for us. Just very beginner.
Other feedback from around the forum - ones with a “bar” end are generally considered more comfortable for wear out and about, but can prevent PIV when worn depending on how big the end is and your anatomy. Round-flare bases are less comfortable for extended wear but better for use in conjunction with PIV.
If you’re new to butt plugs, starting with something small and made of silicone is usually the easiest. They’re soft, safe, and simple to take care of.
If you’ve tried them before and want more of a kick, vibrating plugs or ones with texture can add more . It really depends on what you’re into.
This is our go to, though I may be tempted by this one in a few weeks, for science. You can also try this one, which is fun (though doesn’t work as well as a plug).
Whatever you decide, I hope you have fun 
@arthurm84 I found silicone plugs difficult to get in what with slippery hands and the stem seems to bed when I applied pressure. I returned to my high street competitor shop and after a discussion with the assistant telling her about it she recommended a metal equivalent and that was fine
I might just stick to my silicone vibrator or butt plug as the metal doesn’t appeal to me for some reason
@CuriousCat40 the metal is actually fun in its own right because it can be either warm or cold even without any deliberate heating or cooling in my experience when it’s at room temp it feels quite exciting as it’s cold to the exterior of the and going in and quite a nice feeling and then when you start to fool around with it after it’s been in a while if you pull it out it’s then warm as you tease you anus again with it
Suppose I better try it before knocking it!
Browse on this site Chucky, there’s loads of stuff to choose from.
We have a small LH order on the way and can’t wait. Only five items this time, but it will be fun.
start small and work your way up. It will make things easier for anal sex. The vibrating ones like others have said will vibrate into you vagina which can be really good for the guy but sometimes too good if you get my drift. There are plugs with jewels at the end, tails at the end and in all sizes.
Lube lube lube lube and more lube. They make lubes just for anal.