Samantha here. So im just starting out on my female ejaculation (squirting) joyrney. I spent yesterday evening online on LH shopping. I only manage to squirt while being fucked anally. Iv come close vaginally a few times but bever quite let go. Iv purchaesed a glass double ended curved dildo which should stimulate my gspot. Cant wait for that to arrive later . Just wondered if anyone had any reccomendations or tips.
Hey Samantha! Sounds like an exciting journey. The curved glass dildo should help with G-spot stimulation. Have you tried combining it with clitoral vibes for extra intensity? Also, relaxing and not overthinking the release helps.
If youāve been able to squirt during a before perhaps you could incorporate some anal play whilst stimulating your Gspot?
Iāve found that having a buttplug in makes everything a bit more sensitive, especially this Vibrating one !
As the āgiverā almost every time Iāve made a woman squirt thereās been a lot of g-spot stimulation. Pushing down on the lower abdomen at the same time can help too.
Personally, again as the giver only, Iāve found that probably >90% of the time itās been using my hands vs toys.
The most success Iāve gotten from a toy for sure is the nJoy wand.
Happy squirting and I wish you all the success and the wettest of sheets.
Iām going to second what @Gareth says here, the closest Iāve ever come (pardon the pun) to squirting was with my nJoy steel dildo. Iāve gotten very wet with my glass ājuicerā dildo as well but Lovehoney seems to have stopped stocking those
Difficult to recommend a specific dildo as everyone is different in their responses.
My wife feels nothing from G spot stimulation but squirts regularly from clitoral stimulation only.
Itās my wifeās number 1 favourite toy above all others.
Plus it can double as a very tiny but very serious weapon if anyone was to break in.
āHalt! Who goes there? Oh this? Well Iāll either concuss you with it, or violate you with it as you attempt to exit my property the same way you came in.ā
In all seriousness, it can also be used for deep tissue massage (not just that deep tissue) or for impact play, the smooth, curved part. Itās a little cumbersome and not really what itās meant for, but I have seen it done.
āThis is going over your head or up your ass⦠which one is up to you!ā
I like it.
Iāve squirted with the King Cock dildo - 8inch girth!
You really need to get in there with your fingers and get the coming action going, dont you?.. I havent had sex yet as some as you know, but I think I will be way, WAY more of a giver than a receiver because who ever made women did a fine, fine job of it and in my eyes women deserve all the sexual pleasure thats possible to give, especially the ones with huge kind caring hearts+personalities
I purchased a competitors sacred squirter glass dildo in the hopes of getting the squirting juices flowing for the first time. Unfortunately it, and any other g spot stimulation designed dildos/toys I own, have done nothing for me in that space. Completely unexpectedly though, hubby and I began exploring anal penetration and low and behold what happens, the squirting tap was opened (quite literally ). The angles make all the difference for me so maybe the gspot is somewhat being stimulated from the anal penetration. I also need the clit stimulation as well.
It is very mental too because I can be doing the exact same thing and if I donāt fully let go I will just have a clit orgasm without the squirting too. The biggest mental block holding me back is the mess. If I donāt use a splash blanket I can not mentally let go.
In my experience it depends on the woman as the exact anatomy of all women arenāt the same. Some are deeper or shallower than others so you may not have to go that far. You just need to reach in for the squishy/spongy area and give it a repetitive āscoopā.
Iāve heard many people say you need to do the ācome hereā kinda gesture, as you said. This can work, but in my experience keeping your fingers pretty steady and scooping your entire hand back and forth as if youāre trying to (sorry, weird description upcoming) dig her out is waaaay more effective.
As I mentioned above itās not always about the G spot.
My wife can squirt through clitoral stimulation alone.
For us when we use an extra girthy dildo it tends to open the flood gates! Add a wand into the mix and he better be wearing a snorkel we started with the bearded glass dildo I think you are waiting for which was great because if the weight and feeling that started the juice flowing for sure! Now itās harder to not squirt
itās like Pringles once you pop you just canāt stop!
Hello! After years of trying all sorts of different sex toys my female partner discovered that the Womanizer (not a dildo or g-spot sex toy but a specific clitoral sex toy) was the exact perfect sex toy that makes her squirt within 10 seconds of using!
Womanizers are famous for doing this, she thinks itās the sucking motion of them on her clit which does the trick, it works every time and always within 10 to 30 seconds!
Quite right.
I just wanted to point out that squirting is not always about the G spot
Have you tried a wand? I can guarantee i squirt every time. Just experimenting with using my wand during sex, hope to achieve the same.
Has any man tried making there woman cum multiple times, first from clit stimulation and then g-spot stimulation? So near enough after she has orgasmed from her clit, you move on to the g-spot while her clit recovers and keep alternating so constantly pleasing her pussy?
Iāll do this with women that im crazy about if thats the way to keep pleasuring her pussy after shes cum for the next orgasm, keep switching between g-spot and clit.. And for max pleasure, finger/rub the asshole at the same time..lol