Yes i have got a wand and its good but not amazing. Penetration gives me better orgasms i find
I actually think my wife was close the other night, but I failed to see it and encourage her to keep going or try. I was giving her oral but was also using two fingers in her and massaging her g-spot when she asked me to stop because she thought she was going to pee. Damn we were close, I’ve got to start communicating better. 
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Yeah communication is the key to great sex and apparently to make your partner squirt aswel
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Ahh I kind of forgot about that, so not a great idea to finger the bum just after a g-spot orgasm then… Probably just rub the anus when focusing on the clit after a g-spot orgasm, as the anus has loads of nerves endings aswel, plus with the anus being quite sensitive to touch aswel.
I would encourage my woman if I had one, to her let her body do whatever, piss or squirt as its all sexy as hell and a complete turn on.. And when fingering etc I would say “cum/squirt for me beautiful etc”, make her feel as sexy and beautiful as possible with lots of praises, then she will be wanting/needing to cum for you without you having todo much work… I think making women feel beautiful and sexy with lots praises, while fucking them or making them cum would be one of my number 1 turn on, as Im guessing she would feel completely at ease, relaxed and wanting/needing to cum for me.
Also do it somewhere where shes not worrying about getting stuff wet, so shes completely relaxed as worrying about stuff like that would make anyone not want to squirt/piss and clench up.
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Combine an Njoy Pure Wand, the larger end, internally with a clit stimulator.
Take your time, relax, try to keep edging.
Push the Njoy Pure Wand up and down instead of going in and out so you’re keeping the stimulation on your g-spot.
Maybe use a butt plug too for extra stimulation if that’s what works already.
Hope this helps!
The Lovehoney clit sucker makes my OH gush!