My husband loves me going down on him but I’m not much of a fan of giving oral unless I’m aroused. If I’m not aroused, my jaw locks and is so tight and painful but if I am aroused, my jaw relaxes and it’s so much more enjoyable for us both. I don’t want it to feel like a chore so he suggested some sort of hands-free vibrator I can use while going down on him, win/win
Do others feel do this?
I’m a bit overwhelmed with all the toys and not sure which would be the best one for this. I would love your thoughts.
The WeVibe Chorus is great especially if I give him the remote, or he controls it on his phone. We play games like the closer you are to coming the higher you increase the vibes. If I’m doing a particular movement he’s digging then there’s a squeeze function on the remote so he just squeezes it and I get big vibes.
The other one I’ve tried is this Lovehoney Indulge as it has the hands free clit suction. This is great but the gspot vibe’s lowest setting is still a bit strong for me - but thankfully you can use one or the other or both. Not remote controlled but still has been fun - it’s much bigger and bulkier than the chorus but the clit suction is always a strong winner for me and me climaxing gets him there faster so always fun.
I like the sound of the We vibe that @mrssaffa described, that sounds like it would be fun for you and if he uses it in a similar way, then you know he’s enjoying what you’re doing
Giving a blowjob arouses me, its just as well because if I needed to be stimulated at the same time, he’d not be getting his enjoyment as I’d be distracted