I have a few toys that I like to use. One has a suction cup, one has a weighted flat base and one is a small vibrator.
I enjoy using these often but they do require a fair bit of exercise or contortion to use. Are there any good positions that don’t feel like I’m doing squats to burn calories or reaching my arm round behind my back while bending over just to get a good thrusting angle?
Ideally, I’m looking for a position that can be performed laying down on a bed would be best but I’m open to any other good ones.
I’d suggest maybe kneeling, that’s my favourite solo position or I’ve seen some guys attach their toys to the bed headboard somehow or a wall that the bed is against so they can happily lay on their back or get into doggy position without having to use an arm to do all the work.
Alternatively if your after something more specialised you could look into a dildo thrust machine, can’t remember the proper name for it!
Depending on your need for thrusting, stick it to the wall / shower wall and enjoy moving back and forth… Always throw in the vib for the front at the same time…
Welcome @WolfJC I usually kneel so I can get a good bounce over the dildo, being upright also hits all the right spots for me compared to being on my back, but angles are slightly awkward as I don’t have suction cups yet so they need holding!
Hum, I tend to go for a kneeling position with knees pretty wide which means I can use my feet to stop the thing (usually a glass dildo, so no suction cup) from sliding out of place on the floor. I am by no means an expert however!
Kneeling upright is probably my favourite position, the angles seem to line everything up well and it hits the spot, downside is dodgy knees and I can’t stay like that for long. Shower wall is also a good one, just be careful about lube spilling on the shower floor. I’ve also attached them to a bedside draw (suction cup) as my feet go under the legs enabling me to get full range of motion which is also fun.
Really, you are only limited by your imagination and bodily comfort
Hi there, I’m a bisexual male and personally I like to get in the doggy-style position on the bed, legs apart and use my extra girthy dildo that way! Worth a try and hope this helps!
Hello! I have 3 techniques that I do when I use my Njoy Wand for solo anal play to give myself wet and dry prostate orgasms:
I lay on my back on my bed, with my knees up and feet flat on the bed. I hold onto my Njoy either with one or two hands (my arms between my legs, rather than around and underneath them) and hold the Njoy like that, but after a while your arms will get tired but the rest of you is pretty relaxed
I lay on my back on my bed then roll onto my side, at a 90 degree angle and then lift both my knees up towards my chest and then stretch out my legs straight again, but upwards towards the top left hand corner of the bed. I then lift my bum upwards slightly and hold my Njoy with one hand, as if reaching behind me. This position is comfortable for your arms and body but personally I always struggle to orgasm this way, I’m not sure why exactly, but I can only orgasm in the other 2 positions
I squat on the bed, with my feet flat on the bed and my knees bent so that my bum is only hovering a bit above the bed. I then lean my knees down onto the bed, but keep my cum up and then by reaching behind my back I hold onto my Njoy. This is the best position for giving myself wet prostate orgasms, but the only position I’ve been able to give myself the amazing full body dry prostate orgasms is from 1 but any of these could work for you
I find it v comforting to use a bolster to prop up half my body (while stomach-down) and hike up a leg on top for easy access. Then I’ll just plow away with a dildo in hand. If I get tired/am trying to edge, I can leave it in and give my bolster a nice hug as I recover.
Having something soft and maneuverable underneath your is comforting and helps support my weight to keep my muscles relaxed.
Be ethically non-monogamous with/cheat on your anime waifu body pillow with a bolster—they’re great
