What do you think the best size for a dildo is?
Do you prefer something realistic or more-than-average? Personally, I think my preference lies around 6.5 inches/7 inches, because it can hit all the right spots without a painful stretch, what about you?
@trix
I’m happy with my 6 inch dildo but my husband enjoys the 8 inch (pegging) - but every so often I do stretch myself with a wide boy dildo
For me the best size is the next size as thats what I’m always working up too, so for me this NEXT Dildo will be the best size​
I’m always looking for more!
At the moment I’m enjoying length/depth play, taking my 18” all the way is so damn sexy and feels incredible…
But until recently ive been way more interested in the stretch/gape.
In both cases, I’m always wanting bigger! I’m sure I’m nowhere near my limit!
I’m with the size queens/size kings here! Always working toward the next biggest toy and continuing the stretch. Anal for me, I go more for girth/stretch right now. Getting dildos/plugs between 8-9 inch circumference, but haven’t been able to do or interested much for depth play yet (only 5-6 inches of insertable length for me!
For pegging I prefer a fairly conservative 8" x 7" girth dual density dildo or occasionally a 10" x 8" Lifelike Lover.
For solo play, or so that she can watch, I straddle a Doc Johnson Tripple Ripple dildo or the Titan Intimidator from the same manufacturer. These are both 10" long and 9" circumference (or slightly bigger for the Intimidator.
My dildos are about 7inch with a few exceptions and prefer them to be duel density for a real feel
My wife’s preferred dildo is a 6" length by 4.5" girth, realistic shape with or without balls.
Current favorite for pegging is 6" long by 4" girth, though solo I have enjoyed playing with an 8x4 (I think it pushes closer to 4.5 or more down the shaft) and a 6x4.5 strapless that’s pretty girthy from the tip.
I do love pushing my wife, especially when we’re having a BDSM session, and working our way up the size as I edge her. My current go-to for use when I’m going down on her or DP is an 8x6 that’s soft and has good squish and flex. That seems to be the biggest determination of her enjoyment even more than the size as a deciding factor.
Her favourite at the moment 7 3/4” length and just over 2” diameter
Always looking for more. Though the last few years I haven’t been actively “stretching”.
Also prefer non realistic ones if they are above 6-8 inches. Ones with more ridges and grooves are much better imo. Bella Donna fist dildo is incredible 
My partner prefers a medium 6” toy for solo play and pleasure, but for any BDSM sessions or couple play we always go for the girthy large toys as it’s super sexy to see her stretch around the toy and also the slight pinch and stretch feeling gets her off.
Holy shit where does it go and how do you feel after? Sore all inside?
Ive not really worked out where it goes! Haha
It feels fantastic, plus I film it and it looks damned hot! Ive never felt sore from going deep, When I go deep I take it slowly and carefully…
There have been times Ive got a bit carried away with smaller ones (7-8”) and felt a little bruised the following day…
Perfect for me is 7/8
Hubby loves watching me use big 10+ which is fun but it’s not an every day toy as it makes me a bit sore
Does a rubbery one bend when trying it out. Never used one
mine Range from 7”, 10”, 12”