Best vibrator for first timer?

I would really like to get a vibrator with a view of using with my OH one day but I'd like to try a few out on my own first so i can get a feel of what i like. Never used one before but i have never reached orgasm through just vaginal penetration although i do enjoy it. Any suggestions?

I would recommend starting with something external, like a bullet vibrator. They are great for clitoral stimulation, are small enough to be used during sex (once you are comfortable with that) and they can be used on your partner in creative ways too.

My top bullet recommendations for first-timers are:

Rocks Off Bamboo http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36048

Motley Crue Too Fast For Love http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34557

Tracey Cox Supersex http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14042

Lovehoney Magic Bullet http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34002

Maybe something like this might suit you. Quiet, wont break your bank and with great reviews.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35729

This one is a little more pricey but I really recommend it. It is powerful on it's highest setting for a beginner so would last well. I'm excited for you! Vibrators are a life changer lol xx

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26627

All of the above recommendations are great but I recommend something different. It is great for beginners and can be used on your clit (very successfully) but is slim enough (not intimidating) for insertion and hits your g spot perfectly. It's also in the 2 for £25 deal so you could get a bullet as well or lube (don't forget the lube). 😊
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36047

My first vibe was the Rocks Off 80mm and I still love it!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28137

Or if you'd like the fancier version I also recommend the Rocks Off Ignition Bullet:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35174

I've also enjoy the LH magic bullet, and its great because it takes AAA batteries which are easy to find cheaply:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34002

I really love bullets, I reackon they'd be a great starting point for any vibe beginner.

Hope you find what you're looking for, and have fun! :)

I'd recommend the LH silencers, either the classic vibrator (which is today's DOTD!) or the bullet (which seems is being discontinued?)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16603

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30215

I'd also add that most "beginners" have had some form of clitoral stimulation before, whether they use objects like the showerhead, their hands, or just by grinding on pillows etc. So weak vibrations might actually not be any good. I'd personally recommend getting something with multiple settings or uses (suitable for both external and internal). And Lovehoney has a really good returns policy and excellent customer service, so you don't have too much to worry about! :) All the best, and have fun!

A lot of the LH own branded stuff is cheap and gets the job done, great for beginners, nothing too risky or extreme for a newbie and not much of an investment given they're low priced.

This was one of the first vibrations we owned when we first joined Lovehoney and still remains one of the best that we have owned

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24785

The Rocks Off RO-80mm is still one of our favourite toys and we have added quite a few different toys to our collection since we bought it.

i would suggest you to pick the good one...

the normal toys from china are cheap...but...u know...

I really like this one, I have it in black but that's currently out of stock http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33367

My first ever vibe was a rabbit, it died earlier this year and I replaced it with this one as it's pretty similar although I have another rabbit too http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34257.

I don't cum all that easily and so as a rule you definitely get what you pay for. Enjoy finishing out what you like xx

youngfunhun wrote:

I would really like to get a vibrator with a view of using with my OH one day but I'd like to try a few out on my own first so i can get a feel of what i like. Never used one before but i have never reached orgasm through just vaginal penetration although i do enjoy it. Any suggestions?

Some great recommendations as always. From what you said have you thought about a rabbit vibrator as this will give you the best of both, vaginal penetration and the ears will give clitoral stimulation.

Also another thing to consider is size. For a pleasurable experience it's important to choose a vibrator with a size that you are going to be comfortable with so make sure you read the "how it measures up" section for any vibrator that you like the look of. The vibrator might look great with fantastic reviews but not everyone can manage for example something with a 6" circumference.

And finally don't forget the lube.

The first vibrator I had was a rabbit *edited by moderator*  so I would recommend something in that style from Lovehoney (considering how expensive *edited by moderator*  is at the best of times).


Lovehoney does a beginner's rabbit for only £19.99. It's a perfect mix of clitoral vibrations and vaginal penetration - so if you've never used a toy before, you'll probably find it works a treat! This is the link - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35205

Otherwise, I would recommend a bullet vibrator. This ultra-quiet rechargeable one would be my recommendation. It's small, compact, doesn't require batteries but is also quite powerful. It's perfect for using with your OH also! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30215

Hope I've been some help!

Littlemisssub, you can't mention competitors to Lovehoney here. They are a business before a forum...

I've tried quite a few vibrators and this remains my firm favourite:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26627

It's a great investment due to how quiet and discreet it is. I've actually charged it on my laptop at a Starbucks and nary a glance was cast my way. xD The different speeds and patterns are a plus too. It also charges really quickly and lasts for a long time. I highly recommend it!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29338

For a classic, insertable vibrator, this is pretty darn delicious. I actually prefer it to my rabbits and tend to use it with the bullet (it takes a bit of coordination, but it's so worth it!). The downside is that it's pretty noisey and the batteries can be hard to remove. Still, in terms of pleasure, this is awesome. It's also pretty slim, so it's great for easing yourself in.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9670

This is also a firm favourite. I've tried its improved version (http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31570) and I actually think that this humble original is A LOT more pleasurable. The dial control means that you don't have to restrict yourself to a preset intensity. You can increase the intensity as quickly / slowly as you'd like and it's pretty seamless. It's also pretty silent the moment you have it in. Works as a great clit vibe too.