Totally agree
Regarding something fun and kind of non-intimidating: bullet vibrators are a great way to go! They are usually very simple to operate and, in my experience, not very intimidating for first-timers or people who are new to sex toys! I’ll add links to some of the best ones/easiest to use:
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Lovehoney Flash 7 Function Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator: this one is USB rechargeable, submersible (so can be used in the bath hehe), small (so non-threatening), but not super strong (so if your partner struggles to orgasm this might not be the one for her but it completely depends on her preferences!). Link: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-vibrators/p/lovehoney-flash-7-function-rechargeable-clitoral-vibrator/a26627g41358.html
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Mantric Rechargeable Bullet Vibrator: this one is also rechargeable, really pretty design, setting is shown by a coloured light on the base, and it’s very quiet. Similar in strength to the previous one. Link: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-vibrators/p/mantric-rechargeable-bullet-vibrator/a39046g71738.html
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Lovehoney sweet kiss rechargeable vibrator: This one has been sold out for a while so I’m not sure if it’s coming back, but it’s very strong and the best vibrator I’ve ever had! It’s also a super cute colour. Link: https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-vibrators/p/lovehoney-sweet-kiss-rechargeable-silicone-lipstick-bullet-vibrator/a47204g85148.html
Hope this helps