I’m looking for something that we can use together when a partner is inside me. It would be nice if it were compact so easy to maneuver, with not many settings so less fiddling around.
Something with a deep motor. I literally have never had orgasms as good as what I get from my FSOG Greedy Girl G-Spot vibrator, but it’s more of a solo toy.
I have tried/sampled other rabbit ears that don’t insert and they were too “buzzy” if that makes sense.
Is there such a thing as a wand with bunny ears on the end? That might be interesting, because then I and my partner could both feel the vibration through my abdomen as well.
Tenga smart vibe PLUS cock ring is what I bought years back that has led to my favorite shocked “Did I just cum during sex?” faces ever. Otherwise, portable best hitachi wand gonna be your answer; you on your front “lying” doggy (better for g spot and groping) and dirty talk with it underneath, or you on top with it, or missionary but him edge of bed standing “pounding you” while you use it. All will work.
My fave is tenga cos missionary, pull super close, DEEP eye contact, fully deep inside while it hits their clit and I tell them to cum for me works every time…on me too even though barely grinding I just love eyecontact and girls cumming esp. When ordered to
A rechargeable wand, not necessarily the one above but maybe, is probably your best bet. My personal favourite is the Mantric Wand. The vibrations are just right for me and it’s not too big or heavy for manoeuvring. Alternatively, the other toys we have for clit stimulation during sex are the Melt (best suction toy for me and perfectly shaped for use during sex but can get knocked out of place if you’re too vigorous) and the Zumio (Insanely powerful and so easy to position and though it looks like it should be, not at all numbing or buzzy like a bullet can be, maybe because of oscillation rather than vibration? Not sure. Either way, great for partnered sex, only risk, you might cum too quickly!)
Vibrating cock rings can be great but you’re very limited in positions and sexual style as you need that constant pressure on your clit for them to work so basically missionary or forward facing cowgirl leaning forward a bit. Much grinding, no pounding.
I still think your best choice is a rechargeable wand and if you like rabbit ears, the Happy Rabbit Wand linked above, would be perfect!
Another option would be a vibrating cock ring.
It can take a bit of experimenting to get the one that’s just right for you, but they’ve generally got a bullet which goes against the clitoris and the vibration can sometimes be felt along the shaft of the penis if it’s strong enough and he’s hard enough.
Mechanical vibrators can temporarily numb the clitoris, but the clitoral suction toys do not. Lovehoney lists the Womanizer Premium 2 Rechargeable Smart Silence Clitoral Suction Stimulator. This has a compact, longer handle, which makes it easier to use as a couple than some of the bulkier clitoral suction toys.
We-vibe chorus, sync or unite - wearable during intercourse. We bought one as a honeymoon present 11 years ago (and it still works great) and acquired one in an advent calendar a few years ago. It’s a little bit if an odd feeling for him to get used to, but in my experience, the simultaneous orgasms more than make up for it. Plus you can use it for solo play, and as a wearable if you fancy something a bit risky in public.
Recently got a vibrating cock ring - it was my first purchase. Both of us seem to enjoy it. I got it more as something for both of us as compared to just something to surprise her with. I have to admit I love how it feels against my balls and when I am up against her it feels great and hope it does for her as well. In a loving marriage of 26 years and want to keep things fun. Sex toys are actually new to us - what would you suggest as something else that will be fun but I won’t get “what the hell is that” look.
I’ve got this cock ring, and it’s a really good design.
It’s flat and unobtrusive, and it’s longer than most cock rings on the market, meaning with right alignment it’s bound to make the right contact with your lady’s clit.
Absolutely love this, as well as the we-vibe pivot which is rumblier (bulkier though. The tenga also has excellent vibes).
One thing to bear in mind is that cock rings are excellent and absolutely fantastic… in very few positions. Beside missionary and cowgirl where they excel, they have obvious positional limitations. You also need to have sex somewhat differently. My wife’s clit needs near constant contact from a vibe to make her come. Replace thrusting with grinding and it works superbly.
No, the we-vibe pivot is a regular (excellent) vibrating cock ring.
We-vibe do also do a number C shaped toys designed to be inserted in the vagina, with the outer part sitting on the vulva, vibrating and meant to stimulate the clit, rhe G spot internally, and allow regular penetration at the same time.
Those C shaped toys are meant to allow hands free clit stimulation. We have one been fun to use, but we have worked it out fully yet, ie: its never made my wife come during piv. The pivot cock ring delivered on 1st use.
We’re all different and what works for us will work differently for others.
