Bi abdl sub? Yep im awesomely different :)

arichards · September 29, 2018, 11:06am

Well the title says it all. Im 23 and bi living with a GF BF and step daughter. I am quite sub and love being told what to do. Im also abdl but my little side barely crosses the line into sex its a completely different type of sub, when i need juice and hugs and a teddy bear. I love my toys both kiddy and adult. I hope i get on with everyone here and get and maby give good advice and stories So from me Hello and stay kinky. Xx

Ian_Chimp · September 29, 2018, 11:23am

Hello and welcome 🙂

arichards · September 29, 2018, 11:24am

Thanks Ian.

K_c30_s · September 29, 2018, 1:45pm

Hi and welcome to the forums

will65 · September 29, 2018, 1:45pm

Hi and welcome you will have a good time here, so tell us all about your self, enjoy

lovingnewtoys · September 29, 2018, 1:53pm

Hello. Welcome to LH and the forums

arichards · September 29, 2018, 11:33pm

Thanks guys. Nice to be able to talk openly. Any questions ill happily try to answer otherwise im realy bad at talking about myself.

Fun_Louise · September 30, 2018, 2:45am

Helo and welcome, everyone is welcome here, and we are a diverse bunch of people so you are bound to find some people who share your likes and opinions. It's also a safe place to chat as there are no hook ups or posting of personal contact details, so feel free to ask anything you may wish.

Rachel18 · September 30, 2018, 11:44am

Hey, welcome to the forum!

anon47506584 · October 4, 2018, 3:02am

Hello and welcome! ☺

Gran · October 4, 2018, 7:39am

Hello, and welcome to the forums. Er - what does abdl mean please?

And I'd love to know how your step daughter fits in with your BF GF arrangement. Im also interested to know where you are on the gender spectrum.

Hope that's not too nosey! Feel free to tell me it's none of my business 😉

Penny26 · October 4, 2018, 3:53pm

Welcome

MrandMrs_L · October 4, 2018, 4:10pm

Echoing what Gran has said! I am so intrigued and interested in this. As a straight married female (about as vanilla on the spectrum as you can get) I absolutely love to hear how everyone else lives. And a big hello and welcome to LH :-) everyone is friends here x

anon47506584 · October 5, 2018, 6:23am

MrandMrs_L wrote:

Echoing what Gran has said! I am so intrigued and interested in this. As a straight married female (about as vanilla on the spectrum as you can get) I absolutely love to hear how everyone else lives. And a big hello and welcome to LH :-) everyone is friends here x

Gran wrote:
Hello, and welcome to the forums. Er - what does abdl mean please?

And I'd love to know how your step daughter fits in with your BF GF arrangement. Im also interested to know where you are on the gender spectrum.

Hope that's not too nosey! Feel free to tell me it's none of my business 😉

+1 to both comments (I agree with these posts)

I would love to know more too, if that's ok? x 😊

Thanks.

Just_Tease_Me · October 5, 2018, 6:54am

Welcome to the forum. Enjoy :)

LIL_KNOWN69 · October 5, 2018, 8:45am

Hey and welcome! Hope you find the forums fun and get along with everyone as it’s a super nice community. People asking about ABDL it’s a form of submission in which the user like to become a “little” so an adult will take the role of a child or baby. It’s common and usually ADBL means “Adult baby Diaper lovers”. Being a little takes away the every day stresses of life and allows you to regress back to being a child with no cares or worries, usually playing with toys, colouring and having story time etc. Sex is usually strictly forbidden as this is more of a submissive role which allows you to disassociate.

MrandMrs_L · October 5, 2018, 9:15am

LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:

Hey and welcome! Hope you find the forums fun and get along with everyone as it’s a super nice community. People asking about ABDL it’s a form of submission in which the user like to become a “little” so an adult will take the role of a child or baby. It’s common and usually ADBL means “Adult baby Diaper lovers”. Being a little takes away the every day stresses of life and allows you to regress back to being a child with no cares or worries, usually playing with toys, colouring and having story time etc. Sex is usually strictly forbidden as this is more of a submissive role which allows you to disassociate.

No way! That is super interesting. It's not something I would be into but can totally see why people would like this. Cool stuff :-)

arichards · October 7, 2018, 4:27pm

Hi Guys sorry iv not been online for a couple of days :) hard to balance work and play sometimes.

To answer a few questions.

Gran wrote:

And I'd love to know how your step daughter fits in with your BF GF arrangement. Im also interested to know where you are on the gender spectrum.

Our little girl calls us all parents my GF is mum and we are both dad, as for gender i am male mentaly and physicaly.

As for the ABDL it is 99% non sexual it is as LIL_KNOWN69 said it stands for Adult baby/Diaper Lover. It is the most relaxing thing i have found, fluffy onsies, body suits and yes sometimes diapers.

I often spend a few hours in an evening with my colours or cartoons and teddy bears and it realy makes you forget problems for a while. while i would never expose my step daughter to the extremes we often pick onesies and spend a while drawing and watching tv with crisps and sweets.

Edit:

Any more questions are more than welcome if something is too far then ill just say so. and thanks all for being so easy going and understanding.