So he just did it and didnt ask? And then because you let him do it he guilt tripped you into doing it to him. How are you going to say no if it happens the same way again?
Guilt trippedā¦..
Frankly, you donāt just let someone give you a blow job. There are so many opportunities to decline itā¦ like when kneeling in front of him, getting his todger outā¦. Crikey. This has to have been willingly accepted.
As for the returned favour, again, you dont just give someone a blow job simply because theyāve asked.
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If its something that he wants to continue to do then he should tell his wife what he has been doing. His wife may be more understanding than i would be as i would consider it at cheating and for me thats unforgivable.
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I agree. That was quite a stretch to accuse āguilt tripā
Same for me.
Youāre getting sucked off, not by your partner, without their knowledge/acceptance, itās cheating.
Be it a known male friend, or a female, or unknown is irrelevant.
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100% Iād consider it cheating also but it goes a bit deeper than that because itās putting your partner at risk of introducing STDās. Definitely not harmless fun.
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Told my wife that Iām bicurious yesterday. Discussed having a fantasy about sucking a dick and bottoming for a guy. There was no judgement whatsoever, so thatās a big weight lifted from me. Iād never told anyone that Iād fantasized about gay stuff before!
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about the same
Definitely something that interests me the older I get. Iād love to give a handjob or a blowjob to a man.
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I am a ladyās man and I had an experience with a very convincing crossdresser one night,wow what a sexy,horny experience I have ever had,both of us were shaved and to touch her cock was unbelievable, exciting to feel it grow very hard in my hands,I couldnāt help myself but to gently lick and suck it,both of us was enjoying every moment with each other,no anal but both sucking and licking until we both came at the same time and I will admit that I drank every bit of her milk,this was years ago and I would love to experience this again but,I have a wife now and am truly loyal to her.
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Iām not attracted to men at all, I donāt have any urge to kiss, hug, suck a dick fuck a guy, but I do fantasise about sitting on a trans cock after itās been in another woman. In the fantasy after the woman has been fucked and cum inside I would sit on the cock and the woman would then play, lick while I was being fucked. I would take a load of cum in my arse and the woman would lick it out.
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I am bi curious now I am getting older I feel I would like to try sex with a man just to see what it like
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I know what you mean @Scottishfunk getting older makes you more open to things, and interested in sex generally. How are you doing by the way, I know from your posts you have had a tricky time
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Definitely agree with you there @CandB_Toy_Story
I found once I hit the 40ās my drive and desire for sex and being open/willing to explore other things cranked up a few gears 
But hey, Iām not complaining 
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Totally. That has been my experience too
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I wrote an entire fantasy story about this the other day. It was one of the hottest things
Iāve ever done alone. I was so horny after it!
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Feeling a guy cum inside me was such a hot feeling. Mrs loved hearing about it. It was all in my past but turned her on
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Yeah Iād love to feel that as long as it was with a trans woman. I need to be attracted to the person and men are just not pretty enough
but the thought of having someone cum inside me does turn me on.
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