My husband has recently told me that he is bi curious, what can I do to please his curiosity? Any advice greatly appreciated!
As a Bi male before me and my OH got together I had a male fuck buddy and the odd male fling, obviously that all stopped when I met my OH who's female in case you wonder. My OH doesn't know I'm Bi and used to have gay sex! Obviously I have craved cock since but will not and will never do anything about it but fortunately for me my OH is very open minded and will happy, sometimes too happily used dildo's and toys on me and she has her own range of strap-on cocks, I find the pegging, whilst not like the real thing is enough to scratch that itch for me and my OH loves being the one who's in control.
Communication is key; spend time to talk to find out what that means to him and what he really wants. Might well be the case that he wants to experience anal play, which you can easily try with a dildo or strap on if you're up for that. Or he might be wanting to try a threesome, seen plenty of good advice on here about that. As I say, talk to him and understand what he wants.
Discuss pegging with him. It’s probably what he wants rather than a MMF threesome.
Married and bicurious here. I can only speak for myself here but pegging certainly satisfies any bisexual cravings that crop up from time to time. However, if i was in a male only relationship, or seeking one out, I would preferably be in a versatile top role. With that in mind, if you want to satisfy a bicurious husband, don't neglect the fact he may want to 'top' (penetrate you anally) on occasion.
As with the above post from my perspective as a bi-curious married man I also find pegging hits that spot for me. Also looking at ejaculating dildos to take it a step further. I'm content with my wife and not after an mmf or encounter with a another man, I just enjoy exploring that side of me with her and some awesome sex toys. As others have said though, talk to him. He may not even be sure what he wants himself. You could try exploring some porn to give ideas or just as fun for both of you to get in the mood with and play with yourselves and each other while watching. That might help you both explore that side of him together. I know my with enjoys watching frotting porn and the like with me. Whatever happens though best of look and enjoy yourselves!
Thank you for all your comments. Where could I get an ejaculating dildo from? Love honey?
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/ejaculating-dildos/ I've not tried any of them... yet! Be interesting to know how you find them if you do get one or when I get one I've done a post under Sex Toys asking for advice on them and I'll be updating on there when I do get one.
Also worth checking out these lines that replicate cum... https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=41000 https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37923 Again not tried either of them yet but plan on ordering both when I can to compare.
Thank you, will let you know how I get on with it if I get one.
It seems that there is a huge spectrum between of sexuality from 100% homosexual to 100% heterosexual and a good many of us lie somewhere in between.
Like many posters here I would regard myself as being heterosexual but I do enjoy anal play, anal sex with my wife and being pegged by her too.
I wouldn't regard myself as bi-curious as I have no desire to be with a man although I do occasionally fantasise about this while I am being pegged. My ideal partner, I suppose, would be my wife with an occasional real penis.
Perhaps your husband is similar in that he would like to experience anal sex and pegging? As many have said you need to talk to him to find out exactly what he and you would like.
If it helps I have bit the bullet and ordered thi ejaculating dildo https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=33284 along with the 2 sperm like lubes I mentioned. Once I've tested it and them I can let you know what they're likeFoxyLea87 wrote:
Thank you, will let you know how I get on with it if I get one.
Quick update regarding ejaculating dildo! I ordered the Doc Johnson Bust It Ejaculating Realistic Dildo with Vac-U-Lock 7 Inch and a couple of fake cum lubes. I've only given it all a quick test but here are some brief notes: 1. The dildo is brilliant! Really life like look to it and feels amazing in my ass! As it gets wider as you go down the shaft it's easier to take as well as you can find your own stretching point on it... or go all the way like I did 😉 2. The fake cum lubes were both great although I had a reaction to the Superm Cum On! Lubricant which left me red and blotchy. Went down after a couple of hours with no ramifications but in future I'll only use this when I know I can wash it off straight away and I won't use it internally just in case. 3. Both of the lubes I found they didn't really "spurt" out of the dildo. I've started playing around with watering them down slightly which allows them to shoot out a few feet, however I've not found that perfect ratio of thin enough to shoot out but thick enough to still look really impressive on camera. 4. I haven't really been able to test it ejaculating while inside me, I have it a quick cum shot in me and I didn't really feel it. The fake cum looked sexy dripping out my ass afterwards though 😜 5. I would highly recommend the dildo, worth every penny. Still to decide on the lubes as to which is best though and also not tried the stuff that came with the dildo.
More men are secretly bi-curious than you think. Ive always been straight but also wanted to experience sex in as many forms as possible. Ive pushed my boundaries as part of some MMFs and who knows I might go all the way yet! I've been exhibitionist to both sexes for years, and i guess it built on that. The dildo/pegging idea is good, I got the LH 8 inch one and it fills be nicely!
My partner has recently come out to me as well. At first I was a little surprised but after alot of awkward(yet really exciting) conversations, he now allows me to peg him. I really really enjoy it. Anything that can make him feel great makes me feel great! Start small and work your way up ✌❤💦
Thank you all for your comments, they have all been really helpful and much appreciated. ❤️👍