How did you get your OH to say ok?
Ran across this post while browsing the boards @Tenshadesandme . Totality get your view point and believe that you are correct. You donāt mention if itās past hubby or current one which doesnāt matter but I do get a straight male being secretive about this. Many can be interested in trying oral or anal but it also challenges their sexuality and self identity if that makes sense. Males may want to try these activities but donāt know why and certainly donāt want others to know about it. I was fortunate enough to have a wife willing to explore this adventure with me.
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Only one hubby @be3169 , fortunately only been married the once. You are right though and I have no problem with it. I much prefer an honest but curious partner than a straight but dishonest one.
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That is one of the best comments I have seen on these message boards. Love your insight @Tenshadesandme and love the debates, although we havenāt had many.
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I thank you. Honesty and respect matters above all else for me in a relationship, and yes, I love working with you to help others too. Debates are normal and inevitable. Itās not whether or not you have them, itās how you handle them that matters.
Iām exactly the same! I used yo try and label it, but gave up. I love being with anyone when theyāre all dressed up the same as me
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A number of my photos I have posted here show my ass and I like to imagine some of both sexes would like to mount me . I like to imagine my back side looks fair for a 66 year old .
My latest . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/2369
And several that were well received . https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/811 https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652/1221
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Absolutely we have spoken about this. She knows me (M) has a fantasy/desire to suck an uncut cock and swallow the cum. At first she thought it was weird but since has come to understand why I want too and we have roll played the situation where she makes me suck on a squirt dildo and I take a big load in my mouth 
. Equally we have flip reversed it and imagined we was having a threesome with another guy and she takes the load on her face or in her pussy and I lick it out after.
If anyone wants the link to what we use itās this 
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I would absolutely love my wife to watch me suck cock and swallow , and to watch me be a bottom for a rearly big cock
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What is holding you back ?
Iāve started sucking realistic dildos to get the feel of sucking another man. My OH loves to watch and has orgasmed as I slip it into my mouth.
Whether weāll ever get round to me sucking a real cock is doubtfulā¦but Iām not giving up hope 
!
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@Mercyun ā¦ Mrs W here ā¦ thatās a great idea Mercyun, (sucking a realistic dildo), I got Mr W to do that a few months ago while he was getting used to the idea/possibility of another man in our relationship. Interesting the effect of the sight of you slipping it in your mouth had on your OH ā¦ very hot ā¦
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It was certainly hot Mrs @Wurger , there were of course other things going on at the timeā¦such as her rabbit vibrator going flat out!! But the sight of me sucking that dildo tipped her over the edge 
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@Mercyun ā¦ Mrs W here ā¦ just tried it myself, phewā¦ 
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Just do what you wanna do. Do whatās comfortable.
Itās something we do regularly. She uses harness briefs to hold the dildo so she slips a pebble vibrator inside and I take the dildo in my mouth and work it till she comes. As she approaches orgasm she loses control and starts thrusting the dilso hard into my mouth.
We sometimes do this after sheās pegged me (all cleaned up) and sometimes just for its own sake.
Itās the nearest I can get to giving her a blow job.
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Thatās a great idea @rockstar using a harness /strap-on for the dildo. Weāre not into pegging, but using a strap on for a simulated blow job is something Iāll have to mention!
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I think Iām in the same boat! Used to consider myself more strictly heterosexual, but have really gotten into P-spot play and pegging. I donāt find myself particularly attracted to the male body, but was never āturned offā by looking at penises and find myself finding many penises looking attractive nowadays.
Definitely curious about giving a BJ and receiving a real one anally! Wife and I have discussed that weāre both open to exploring ethical non-monogamy, and am now really excited to the idea of trying things out with another guy 
Hopefully my fantasy becomes reality before too long!
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