Bit gag or ball gag?

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What are your preferences when it comes to gags - bit gags or ball gags?

For me personally, I prefer bit gags: less stress on the jaw (I have TMJ disorder) and the slight pressure on the corners of my mouth serve as a great reminder that no, I really shouldn’t be talking :joy:

I even plan to buy a bit gag for hubby for Christmas this year. I mean it’s for me really, but I’m giving him the gift of peace and quiet :grin:

I think for me, the recent appeal in gagging comes from the fact that I know I’m a bit of a smartmouth sometimes; I know that I’m clever and funny and I know that I am generally loved for it, I just need to be reminded to shut the f**k up sometimes :joy:

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As a third alternative, i really like my dildo gag. It’s about 4" long and feels great in my mouth.

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We use an o gag - this forces the mouth open allowing oral pleasure

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I was thinking the same thing.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/blindfolds-masks-gags/gags/p/bondage-boutique-leather-and-studs-dildo-gag/a25615g39321.html

Or

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/blindfolds-masks-gags/gags/p/bondage-boutique-inflatable-dildo-gag/a38754g71338.html

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I was thinking of this

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/blindfolds-masks-gags/gags/p/scandal-silicone-stopper-o-ring-gag-2-inches-diameter/a38573g71087.html

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I’m titallated by the thought there’s still some gear you don’t own and are possibly still to experience for the first time.

Here’s to being on Santa’s nicely naughty list so you can get the best of both worlds.

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Why not both? The Bondage Boutique Beginners Small Ball Gag is small enough to slip past teeth letting the strap reach the corners like you described.

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@rockstar I can see the appeal, it’s not an option I had considered before I must admit. Hmmm.

@batjamboree we have tried O rings gags before, unfortunately it wasn’t wide enough for Master’s, ahem, oral preferences :grin: and wider would probably leave me in pain.

@JGood why am I liking the sound of an inflatable gag? Goes to show that all it really takes to shut me up is a bit of innovative thinking :joy: the ability to adjust it would probably help distinguish between “wide” and “too wide” as well.

Gags aren’t new to me, but we had a domestic fire a couple of years ago and had to relocate and I think some things got left behind in the madness, unfortunately. I dread to think what the removal guys saw or thought :joy:

Nicely naughty, always, and absolutely no plans to change.

@RKat the problem with anything small enough for me to wrap my mouth around is that I wouldn’t trust me not to run my mouth around it too. Have been known to sing “twinkle twinkle little star” around a ball gag before now, just to demonstrate the fact I could :joy:

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Perks of the job, you probably saved them a fortune.

While at uni I was took a job as a cleaner of the dorms, saw a lot of interesting stuff and no wonder students take out extra loans. :joy:

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I do remember not thinking and pulling a riding crop in front of a mate once. My quick thinking I explained it off as my horse-riding crop. I haven’t ridden a horse in 20+ years :joy:

The bright side was it turns out she was kinky herself, so it made our friendship much easier, going forward.

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As I said to @KinkyMira, Kink has a way of finding kink. The kink is strong in you. You may even bring balance to the kink.

The more friends you have to sit at lunch with sipping wine and talking about to gag or not to gag is all the better.

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Because you know as well as me if you coat it in male and/or female juices before it goes in the sub will drool like crazy especially if given the command not to lick it clean.

You can’t act innocent with me :upside_down_face::wink:

Two peas in a pod at times.

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Definitely true all too often in what I do. I seem to find people who didn’t know they were kinky, and then…

Friends to enjoy sipping wine with and discuss to gag or not to gag? Is there really any greater pleasure than the company of people who just “get” you?

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Oh god, my own. That could be the kind of sadism that should get a Dom eternal condemnation in my eyes but it’s all good fun :joy:

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When I first got into bdsm I was never a fan of gags. I always found drool gross- how times have changed :rofl:

The first kind of gag I got into was bit gags as I felt like it gave me a lot more control. I feel like you’re able to swallow your saliva a little easier with them and it’s also great to bite on if you’re having rough sex. I also like pulling on them, putting your partner’s head exactly where you want it.

Then I got into O gags and ball gags, which are perfect if you want to have a cute little drooling sub. Also I’ve seen a lot of gags with nipples clamps attached, so there’s always that option
https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/blindfolds-masks-gags/gags/p/dominix-deluxe-large-breathable-ball-gag-with-nipple-clamps/a31953g55921.html

I think it’s up to you really, I think bit gags are a little nicer on the jaw but ball gags are definitely a lot better for sadism ((:

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That could be the reason I’m excommunicated

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You’re telling me you’re not familiar with humiliator gags? They’re essentially a plastic ball gag with holes in them. I mean they’ll tell you they’re so the sub can breathe easier, but we all know that they’re definitely to let that uncontrollable pool of saliva out, and because there really is nothing cuter than a sub groaning helplessly as drool drips from their chin :wink:

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There’s only one thing I worship.

Boots, I don’t know what you had in mind :wink:

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I always thought that’s what those holes were meant for :rofl:

Why would I want my sub to breathe easier? That ruins all the fun (;

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Welcome to the club! :joy:

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