Hello i was recently on holiday and had a girl come back to my hotel.
She had amazing body.
After my shower she moved removed my towel and started giving me a bj.
She tried for so long but i just couldnt cum.
Eventually i finished myself off.
I just dont understand why this pretty girl and this happend .
I am 48 and was on tablets for anxity and i was having some issus while on them like being or taking really long time.
I was on low viagra 25mg
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I had a woman came to my hotel room after having an argument with her fella and blew my world but took ages to cum
Sometimes I cannot cum just by a BJ alone and hand work is required too
Pardon my asking, what are you taking for your anxiety? Both SSRI’s and propranolol got in the way of my ability to reach orgasm. It’s one of the reasons I much prefer therapy 
I think I’ve only ever cum from a blow job two or three times, always just foreplay or finish by hand , usually mine.
That said, wife must’ve done some reading recently, because after 17 years something has definitely changed! She brings me right to the edge now; but we both prefer coming together through penetration
I have had this a few times, even after a long session it’s taken a while and my head goes into a bit of a weird panic.
taking a while can be down to a lot of things, drink and drug intake for instance, could be stress levels or nervousness. As you said you have been on Anxiety medication this could also cause some issues. I know a lot of folks are on tablets like setraline and it wreck their sex drive etc.
the most common cause of taking a while is usually the Situation where your brain says “wow I’m taking a long time” then you start going into a panic of “why is this taking so long?” “What’s wrong” “are they going to feel they aren’t good enough” etc 
Iv heard it from all genders that it’s common occurrence and really does delay orgasm.
I too find there’s no guarantee with a BJ. Usually it’s part of something extra. If it’s on its own I usually stand up to make sure I get there, if I’m sitting down with her on her knees I find it a lot tougher.
If you’ve only orgasmed from masturbation for a while, it could just be that you’re not used to those sensations, especially if you have a tighter grip.
But it could have been many things really…
Many many possibilities
New environment/girl, something on your mind, drink?, chance anxiety tablets could be doing something, she might be be hitting the right spot… etc
As long as you finished off (or even don’t at times!) but enjoy the moment and know it doesn’t always end in a bang, it’s all good
Any alcohol involved?
Escitalopram 20mg
Yes but not loads
I’m not a doctor but I’d say with almost certainty that’s your culprit. I was on citalopram for a while and I would get horny but orgasms just didn’t happen, or if they did, they were maximum effort and very weak.
Talk to your doctor again and tell them it’s causing performance issues for you. It’s not worth suffering in silence 
Yes, delayed or absent ejaculation is a common sexual side effect of escitalopram in men. It can make it more difficult or even impossible to ejaculate during sexual activity or masturbation
Alcohol probably played a part also.
The anxiety pills defo could be a contributing factor to this
I also find it hard to cum at times from a BJ. They all feel great but sometimes just don’t send me over the edge.
I felt the same from the many women I’ve had, found it hard to cum, my partner of 10 years now makes my eyes roll, o my god, it’s unreal, never felt anything like it, communication was the key, she’s learned what I like and I’ve learned what she likes, I see the veins in her neck when she’s cumming so hard.
I have, luckily, only had trouble from coming from BJ’s is when she hasn’t cum yet. I’m a nurturer and I want her to cum first. If she has then I don’t last long at all. She’s the only one who’s ever deepthroated.
@hornidad this does sound familiar. Wife can’t give me proper bj, like you said it’s usually me finishing it off by my hand. Glad yours has found something different after 17 years