After doing some more research on trying to conceive after over a year and a half of trying I have read that oral sex can not help as the saliva can affect the sperm in a bad way. Now I tend to give alot of blow jobs hubby is a lucky boy but I just love doing it making him squirm as i tease but I'm looking for anything I can do to get him ready and raring to go without using my mouth. I sometimes feel abit weird with a hand job as Im just sat there pumping away but can't think of anything else to do so I thought I'd come here for help.
What do you or your partner do to get him squirming?
Could you try a male masturbator? My partner hates anything like that but I've read alot of men on here enjoy them.
You could try a Tenga Egg, if you are careful they are reusable, or even some of the new Pussy Pocket toys are designed I think to replicate oral sex. You could try this and see how you get on. Failing that, maybe mix it up a little with different lubes? A warming/tingling lube, or even try with an ice cube in your hand? Just worth an idea!
You could also try gently restraining him (if you're both into that) and make him watch you pleasure yourself, or undress yourself out of some sexy lingerie before you pleasure him. My favourite is to use my partners penis on my clitoris and get myself off with it. So hot.
LoveHoney also do some great massage candles, an intimate sexy massage would be something different and really get him going!
I have had the same problem recently, but it is because I injured my jaw so can no longer go down on him, which was the best and most fun way to turn him on and drive him wild.
I've been experimenting with a few alternatives, I did buy him a stroker from here to try and spice up a hand job, but actually it turned out I don't like it, I enjoy being able to touch his skin and didn't like this weird alien looking thing between us. He loves it and uses it for his solo time though.
What I've actually found out that drives him wild is he loves having his balls played with and perinium stroked whilst I work his shaft with loads of lube. I found this out just by trying it, so in that way not being able to give a BJ has been a blessing because it means I've explored new things. My advice is to try out new ways of touching him and see what response you get, and have fun with it!
Good luck with the conception! My pregnant friends swear by the temperature method (taking your temperature every day and having lots of sex the days it is higher), I'm sure you've tried everything like that already tho.
the cool thing is it has a air hole at the top that you can cover with your finger to create a suction sensation, i know you said you feel wierd about hand jobs but with this i think you could have your fun too by creating and releasing the suction sort of like a tease by covering/uncovering the hole. And you could switch it up by turning it inside out for a different texture. It isn't all that expensive either! Plenty lube inside it i think you could get him squirming lol you could even try different sensation lubes? Would love to know how you get on xx
To drive him wild I kiss him passionately and as soon as I'm horny and wet (it doesn't take much) I too generally give him a blow job too as it turns me on so much, I then straddled him and rub the tip back and forth over my clit and then go towards the entrance to get the wetness and tease him into thinking that we will have sex, drives us both crazy! 😘😍💋
Loving the idea of using his penis to get myself off thinking about using my boobs too but not sure how yet. Going to have a look at the strokers too.
There are always loadsof offers around on strokers. It's a shame my man hates them (never tried them either and refuses to use his tenga egg I got him for chrisrmas) but using his penis to pleasure yourself will surely blow his mind. And balls. Have fun!
A wand held against the frenulum is amazing. . learn how to milk his prostate. The whole juorney ( forgive the pun) of exploring prostate massage is very erotic and arousing. Once mastered it possible the give a penis stimulation free orgasmed. To me these are the pinnacle of male orgasmed pleasure. Once expertience you wonder how anything else was thought of as so good.
Good luck and its wonderful this hear a woman care so much about her mans pleasure he's a lucky guy.
A wand held against the frenulum is amazing. . learn how to milk his prostate. The whole juorney ( forgive the pun) of exploring prostate massage is very erotic and arousing. Once mastered it possible the give a penis stimulation free orgasmed. To me these are the pinnacle of male orgasmed pleasure. Once expertience you wonder how anything else was thought of as so good.
Good luck and its wonderful this hear a woman care so much about her mans pleasure he's a lucky guy.
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Now, I'm not sure if I want to research this further or not!
Holly Love, have you tried "kissing" him all over with your other set of lips? When you are wet and or lubed up, lie him down and drag yourself up and down his body, stopping on occasions to plant kisses.
Just a thought.
I don't know if I'm unusual but the most erotic thing my OH does is to tie me to a nice leather reading chair and then go off and spend time dressing herself, Then she'll spend time teasing me, sometimes not even touching me for ages. Just coming really close so I can smell her scent, putting her p**** just out of reach of my face, kissing me, sitting on me.