My husband loves it when I give him a blowjob, but I haven’t been able to do it for a long time because of trigeminal neuralgia (electric shocks in my face). Ive looked at the lh website, but what would you recommend at an affordable price to use on him when I can’t do it please?
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@RachelW - sorry to hear about your predicament
I would suggest using your hand to masterbate him over your mouth- my husband loves it when I take off my knickers and wrap them around his cock and ask him to fill them up while I wank him
I appreciate it’s no blow job - but if giving a bj causes you pain or discomfort- he needs to accept and enjoy other ways for relief
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Yes! Go with what @batjamboree says it’s perfect.
Especially if you’re wearing a skirt and he just walks in the room and you tell him to stop and lower his trousers while you take them off.
If all else fails a fleshlight for £50-£60 is okay or just wait for one to go on sale.
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He hasn’t said anything. I just love seeing what a bj does to him
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… then you’ve got absolutely nothing to worry about. If he knows about your condition and cares about you, he will have empathy and understanding.
The last gf I had before my wife LOVED giving full-service bjs. My wife isn’t wicked-keen on giving oral but has days where she wants to do it.
… we spoke about it recently. Yes, I do sometimes ‘miss’ the bj-life I had previously, but what’s more important is that my wife is enjoying being with me. I told her that I’d hate if she was just doing sexual acts to please me and if that meant no bj’s, so be it. I get off massively from her handjobs cos she puts effort and enjoyment into them.
He’ll be fine.
You’ll be fine.
Communicate.
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Maybe try the Lovehoney Head Master Double Texture Blow Job Stroker
I’ve not tried that toy myself but I do love the Doc Johnson Mood Exciter Double-Sided Stroker (currently out of stock) which is super soft, stretchy and open ended. Add a little lube and use ether end on the head of his penis. As it’s open ended my partner also uses this toy on my shaft as she licks and teases the head of my penis.
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I sympathize with you @RachelW trigeminal neuralgia is very very painful. I cannot recommend any thing as a replacement but hopefully you will get some great advice
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@RachelW Sleeves are very good, with plenty of lube…I feel you about the TN, had it myself for 6 months 
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We invested in a few of the thrust toys when blowjobs were not an option for a while. Great fun and he enjoyed it but we both love blowjobs so when we could do it again they dont see much action anymore.
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Thank you. I hope you haven’t personally had experience of it.
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I’m sorry you had to experience it x hopefully it won’t return!
@RachelW sorry to hear of your predicaments and I am unable to help other than is he happy for you to give him a helping hand in the meantime and as he is about to cum just give him a bj to finish off however I am sure that there will be a lot of advice on here. Hope things work out for you both
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For a time a few years ago we thought it was but turned out to be a teeth problem, once resolved no more pain in the face @RachelW
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I wouldn’t even be able to do it to finish him off in afraid. At the moment the minute anything touches my lips or teeth on right hand side I get electric shocks through my eye
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I’m glad to hear it got resolved 
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@RachelW so sorry to hear that i hope you cn get it sorted out soon hope your ok Just keep positive and see how toys can help
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As admirable as your concern is, i wouldnt worry about it too much.
My wife isnt keen on oral (both ways), and yes, i used to love when she gave me a BJ, but i simply accept it’s off the table now. to be honest, i miss licking her pussy more than i miss the BJ.
The main point is that we still have an extremely satisfying sex life. She’s great and indulges me in other ways, and I love the plain, fairly vanilla sex we have.
You can look to invest in toys, some of them are great fun, none of them are anyhting like a blow job, but im sure he’ll be thrilled to have you used them on him!!!
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Blowmotion suction vibrating masturbators or similar are very good.
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