Blow job

Sex Tips & Talk
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Straight guy. Getting bj from a gay men?
Thoughts

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Im a straight man but i would love to try giving a blow job to a man.

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My thoughts on this are that the guy receiving isn’t necessarily gay/bi, but is just enjoying the receiving. If however he decides to return the favour gives a bj, and enjoys it, I would make a case that he is bi.

I say this as someone who was in denial about being bi for some time. For ages I always said I was straight, yet in secret I would find random guys on Grindr to give a bj to, sometimes I’d even be wearing fem clothes. I’ve since accepted that even though I’m not attracted to men, I do enjoy being sexual with men and love a good :eggplant:, therefore I am bi.

Either way, I’d reccommend it as guys know what guys like

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Something always gets me turned on by the thoughts of being able to play with a straight guy.

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NO NOT EVEN A THOUGHT OR CONSIDERATION FOR ME. I LOVE WOMAN AND EVERYTHING ABOUT THEM honestly.

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I think i would describe myself as Bi-curious rather than Bi.

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Seems accurate based on what you’ve said. The beauty of it all though is that it’s whatever is right for you at the end of the day

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Your caps lock is on.

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I have been with my wife for over forty years, but there was a time years ba we were separated. During that time I met and became friends with a bi man and experimented. I can say I enjoyed very much giving a blow job over receiving. Not much of a sample size but my wife gave/gives much better blow jobs. Again I did enjoy giving a bj and if ever I was not with my wife I would probably explore MM again. Still attracted to women but just something about giving a man head was such a turn on.

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I have never had a blow job.

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Giving a man a BJ really is something special! Fully agree with you @JMS55

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I would class myself now as straight, but I’ve both received and given head to men. I was more attracted to the giving than the receiving to be honest, the fact the guy was much bigger than me was a huge turn on. Give it a try, you might like it :grin:

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I really don’t think it matters much, but i reckon that makes you bi rather than straight?
If you were straight, sucking someone off wouldnt cross your mind.

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I see you’ve made that progression yourself already.

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I’d agree

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Not sure humans have to fill in a compliance form to prove their credentials as to which category they fall into.

As what could be described as a hetero male (not that I care) I have on one occasion last year enjoyed some play with my male friend of 20+yrs. He is also married to a female for a long time and has two children btw.

We somehow during a conversation about sexual matters began masturbating ourselves, then moved onto each other for a minute or two. The horniness then went off the scale and unprompted he began performing oral on me.

It felt amazing to be honest, but I stopped him after a few minutes as he got a bit over vigourous and was beginning to hurt a bit.

I admit then I had a ‘go on him’ I was really gentle and slow in the style of my o/h and he absolutely loved it. I then stopped as didn’t feel ready to (erm) experience the end result & we both just finished each other by hand in about 30 seconds.

Does this make me/us 'bi" ? No I don’t think so, it’s just some fun that happened in context.

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I feel like I have layers of revealing to answer this question they aren’t caveats, but just like steps on the thought process staircase…

  1. I’m like 98% straight. Nowhere near even bicurious but open enough to say I couldn’t call it 100.
  2. We are in a happily monogamous relationship and inclusion of third parties into our see life is a hard limit.
  3. We do have a shared fantasy that comes out in dirty talk around a lot of MFM activities that over the years has passed even MFF as a fantasy for me.
  4. Wife has shared, especially when pegging me, that she fantasizes about watching me with another man, and I’m not opposed to indulging that dirty talk and it does get me going.
  5. At the end of the day, I don’t think I’ve ever had an unbidden fantasy or desire to give another man a blowjob and outside of our bedroom dirty talk it doesn’t hold much appeal to me.
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Im bad about that, sorry