Hi. I’m new here, this is my first post.
I’m 52 years old my mate is 54. I’ll admit I’ve never been big on bj’s. However, I met him a bit over a year and a half ago. He changed how I felt about them. I began enjoying it, I enjoy all of it with him.
We watch porn together, are very vocal about likes dislikes, toys, we enjoy a very robust sex life. I did research on how to give blow jobs. Seriously, read about them, watched videos with him. He says I have mastered it all except - the finish. I can’t get there. I fall apart. Generally at this point we have been having sex for several hours, three to four - with a few breaks. Or I have been giving him a bj for 2 to 3 hours (yes ED is an issue) again with a few breaks. I always stimulate the head and male g-spot but not overly so.
But for about the last month or so he has insisted it needs to be “In the spot” in my mouth. Except the damn spot keeps moving. So I can’t finish him because just when I think I have the spot, it changes.
Is there a “magic” spot? Please help. This is so frustrating.