Right this is very random but it’s just a thought I had randomly last night. Can guys tell me what’s so amazing about a blowjob? Don’t get me wrong I quite enjoy giving them but it seems like guys are obsessed with them. I guess I want to know what does it actually feel like? 
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Unfortunately I have never received a blow job. I am, lets say of the older generation but I think porn has a lot to do with it. You get very few films etc involving male/female when a blow job is not done, strangely far less men seem to go down on ladies in the films. Its always about the guy getting pleasure. Therefore in guys minds the blow job is key. Personally in the real world it is not…
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For me a blow job is enjoyable on many different levels.
Physically it is a warm wet space like a vagina but there is tongue stimulation and suction involved too.
There is also the emotional aspect where someone is willing to perform this act to give me pleasure with little or no input from me.
The final thing for me is the power dynamic. A blow job is not degrading for the person giving it. They have all the power. They have absolute control over the receiver’s pleasure and can control them completely. I love the feeling of handing over of the power.
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I guess it is for similar reasons that others like cunnilingus, it is the sensation, the intimacy and the final release. For some it could be domination I guess.
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Fab question. As a keen giver of blowjobs, I am definitely interested in seeing more responses. 
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Technique can make or break a good blow job, but when shes on her knees, looking up into my eyes knowing that it’s all going down her throat then im notnsure whose more happy!!
PS, Plenty of spit is a must.
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If done well it can stimulate all the nerve senses around the head of the penis and give a rather blissful orgasm
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I get obviously the head has nerves and stuff I’m just saying it seems like lads are obsessed with blowjobs 
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There are lots of reasons why men enjoy blowjobs.
Several have been mentioned already, but one that hasn’t been mentioned is that fact that the giving partner can hold the receiving partner on the edge of orgasm which is both incredibly pleasurable and makes the final release more intense. In theory, it would be possible to do this during vaginal sex, but that requires more self control than most men possess.
There’s also something incredibly sexy about the fact the giving partner is in complete control and is doing it because they want to make him come.
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You could always blame porn for the obsession, but in reality it is just a nice thing one person can do for another.
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@gracelangstaff2004 I wish my OH was, I believe he is in the minority. He has never enjoyed them and I love giving them.
I feel like I am a wasted talent! 
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That does suck ( genuinely no pun intended ) because like you’ve said yourself I’ve really enjoyed giving them over the last few months I really enjoy sucking and licking my fwbs tip and watching him try not to cum from them makes me laugh to be honest
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My wife gives the best blowjobs! Lots of spit, deepthroat and tongue action. She loves giving them too and each time it just blows my mind.
We try different positions too and that just adds to the fun.
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I’m not obsessed with blowjobs by any measure but I love the intimacy!
Not to mention the kisses afterwards…
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Giving a blow job takes time to perfect and never to be rushed
For me it’s the ultimate intimate experience a person can do on a man - but also I compare it to when I receive oral from my man - it’s the soft tongue and lips - just wonderful 
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I really miss receiving a blowjob as my OH isn’t interested at all in giving me one but I enjoyed them many years ago in previous relationships.
The feeling around the head of the penis is amazing and the warmth, wetness and flicks of an expertly worked tongue, is something I have yet to find a toy can fully replicate.
Add to that the visual of someone going down on you with sultry eye contact and the whole willingness of them to take full control of your pleasure while you submit to them is so intimate and sexy.
I still remember the ecstasy from my first one and these days imagining being edged before finally being brought to orgasm orally is certainly one of my fantasies.
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If done well, a bj can feel amazing.
For me, most of the enjoyment revolves around being pleasured, being the centre of attention etc
It’s also exciting seeing something delicious happening to my downstairs guy …
I think it can be to do with the receivers needs being completely catered to, very little effort is required by the receiver to frel pleasure, its all about them (well, at least in their mind).
Perhaps for some, this could be taken too far and they become a selfish lover, especially if its demanded / expected, but to allow yourself the ability to simply let go and relax into the situation is blissful
I love wetness in all sex acts, and with a blowjob it’s guaranteed. It’s also more controllable than, say penetration, and there are various ways it can be done (licking, sucking, biting, etc) plus various areas that can be targeted, producing endless permutations and possibilities. Having said all that, though, and although I enjoy my wife giving me blowjobs, for some reason they have never been enough to make me cum.
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my ex always use to say giving head is the most personal thing a partner can do as unlike sex where the other person can be uninvolved and just lie there with head both partners have to be willing and feeling completely intimate with each other and when the person receiving finishes it is the most vulnerable they will be and that done in a loving relationship is the most intimate thing.
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