hiya all :)
my first post woo.
anyway, i was wondering, if anyones ever used the blue pills or capsules and which ones worked?
i mean, i don't feel i last long, i know my girlfriends feels a bit frustrated about it too, and i've tried the delay type sprays but they don't seem to be doing the trick!
so any help would be grand :)
There are various delay lubes on here, idk if they'd work considering you said the sprays didn't, but a possible :) x
yeah i've tried a few, and they just don't seem to work! plus, if you want to go again after and you use more delay stuff you just go numb haha :(
i'm looking to herbal stuff but theres so many i just wanna know what one works, y'know? :)
Ooooh, I'd not thought of herbal stuff... Obviously haven't tried anything myself but if I come across anything I can shout you if you'd like?
:) YES please thankyou aha
my first friends as well aw
Aha, woot :3 Do you have skype at all? No chat on here anymore and I quite fancy a chat :3
cant really offer any person experience of them but try reading the reviews on them i tend to find that helpful when im unsure
Golden Root is a "herbal" one that I have used on many occassions.
I haven't ever used the actual Pfizer pharmaceutical Viagra, so I couldn't make a comparison.
Golden Root comes in capsule form and the instructions claim that it takes about an hour to work.
I found that it has worked every single time and the effects are a very strong erection that doesn't fade (but not every minute of the day) for up to 24 hours.
I don't believe that there is any effect on the volume of ejaculation, although there is some delaying effect.
Side effects are quite noticeable. I believe that nose tissue is very similar to penis histology, and the first thing you notice is very dry nasal passages, and sometimes a sore throat. I also get a flushed face and quite a considerable headache. I have heard that you can also get blurred vision - if this has ever happened, it wasn't serious.
Golden Root comes in 300mg and 500mg capsules - if you are going to take it, I would not use the 500mg again- it's just too strong and goes way past being useful.
On that subject - the instructions state that after taking a capsule, the effects should start in about an hour; which tallies with my experience. You can open the capsules, mix the contents with water and drink it (tastes very bad) and you will get effects in about 10-15 minutes. I'm not making recommendations of any kind - but I do this to take lower doses as I find the product a bit strong in general.
One thing that is worth pondering is how much of it is a placebo effect, and also the convenience issue. On the placebo - whilst I have no doubt that the thing really does work chemically, I find that within a minute or two of taking it, I'll have a very strong erection - even though it shouldn't have worked so soon.
On convenience - when do you actually take these things? If you were to go out on a hot date - it would be a big mistake to take it beforehand as you'd have to sit through dinner with a really uncomfortable trouser tent and the side effects would also ruin things. On the other hand - how do you time things so that you know you'll need it in an hour?
thanks for your thorough reply :) it's a shame that golden root is so expensive. and i'm not sure if the gold max stuff is the same
the search continues!
I think you're kind of at the bottom of the market. I would be extremely suspicious of anything cheaper.
If you have ED, then there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to get something (ie Viagra) on prescription. If you don't have ED - I'm not convinced you're looking at the correct solution. If you don't think you're lasting long enough - I would think that's a completely different issue.
Personally the blue pills didnt work for me but thats not to say they wont for you, everybody is different and they affect everyone differently. Gonna try my OH with the pink ladies version soon, see if they make a difference to her
They're offering a blue pill to test - there's a thread, sign up for it :)
Just a question but do you wear protection during sex? If not then try rubbering up with one of the thicker last long condoms, should help you go the distance :)
jaycloth wrote:
Golden Root is a "herbal" one that I have used on many occassions.
I haven't ever used the actual Pfizer pharmaceutical Viagra, so I couldn't make a comparison.
Golden Root comes in capsule form and the instructions claim that it takes about an hour to work.
I found that it has worked every single time and the effects are a very strong erection that doesn't fade (but not every minute of the day) for up to 24 hours.
I don't believe that there is any effect on the volume of ejaculation, although there is some delaying effect.
Side effects are quite noticeable. I believe that nose tissue is very similar to penis histology, and the first thing you notice is very dry nasal passages, and sometimes a sore throat. I also get a flushed face and quite a considerable headache. I have heard that you can also get blurred vision - if this has ever happened, it wasn't serious.
Golden Root comes in 300mg and 500mg capsules - if you are going to take it, I would not use the 500mg again- it's just too strong and goes way past being useful.
On that subject - the instructions state that after taking a capsule, the effects should start in about an hour; which tallies with my experience. You can open the capsules, mix the contents with water and drink it (tastes very bad) and you will get effects in about 10-15 minutes. I'm not making recommendations of any kind - but I do this to take lower doses as I find the product a bit strong in general.
One thing that is worth pondering is how much of it is a placebo effect, and also the convenience issue. On the placebo - whilst I have no doubt that the thing really does work chemically, I find that within a minute or two of taking it, I'll have a very strong erection - even though it shouldn't have worked so soon.
On convenience - when do you actually take these things? If you were to go out on a hot date - it would be a big mistake to take it beforehand as you'd have to sit through dinner with a really uncomfortable trouser tent and the side effects would also ruin things. On the other hand - how do you time things so that you know you'll need it in an hour?
Very good info right here, and I agree with it all apart from the 500mg one, I've tried the 300mg and was hit and miss (I found drinking with a can of red bull completely ruined it, must have been the caffeine) but a 500mg pill with a glass of water and much fun was to be had!
but I don't really feel it will help in this case, you need to get to the root of the problem and that is mind control..take deep breaths during intercourse, relax and feel the energy flowing through your body, as you exhale it helps to kind of make a low manly growl/groan as it will give you something to focus on and will give your partner feedback that its feeling good for you. Be slow and gentle, y'know like after penetrating your partner maybe just lay there for a bit kissing to get used to the feeling..you'll find its getting past that mental stumbling 'block' during the act and once you're past the 'oh fuck I'm gonna cum' stage it will feel a lot more relaxed and enjoy it more - a technique I used is just to not think about it, try and put the whole idea of orgasm out of your mind and focus on the here and now (because orgasms aren't the be all and end all of sex), and as bad as this sounds, temporarily put something else in your head, my trigger was anything the colour red, I would focus on all things red in my imagination just to get over that initial stage and once I got past that I could actually enjoy the sex without having to distract myself, was about 5-10mins for me but YMMV
GillyJam747 wrote:
Aha, woot :3 Do you have skype at all? No chat on here anymore and I quite fancy a chat :3
I've set up a temp chat room thats used by (and only by) quite a few LH members, email me tturtle@live.co.uk for info :)
Have done just that! :) Also, what does YMMV stand for? Not seen it used before :S
I think it's "Your mileage may vary"
:) well thanks. i guess it is more of a mind thing, but theres times when i'm just like 'goddamn this is annoying' and want a quicker solution
GothicXIII wrote:
I think it's "Your mileage may vary"
It is yes :) have replied back to you :)
If you are looking to last longer, have you tried using toys? Some of the intenser feeling ones, the strokers. A lot of the review guys say they use them to practice lasting longer. You know, when your alone, no pressure, and you can take yourself close and stop etc?
I dont think you can get pills that delay your orgasm, I guess you mean to keep you hard so you can keep going? I would really suggest, dont mess about with your body too much or over worry about this problem. I know its annoying now but are you reasonably new to sex? All guys go through this stage I believe and it settles down on its own.
The only quick fix things I can think of have been said already, delay sprays, slowing down during sex and condoms to reduce the feelings and using the power of your thoughts to distract you which is harder to learn.
There is muchhhh more to sex than just penetration. Have you tried doing stuff to her, oral or using toys etc until she orgasms then maybe you will be ready to go again after that break.
And just so you know, not many women want a man that can brag at being able to pump away for hours on end like some kind of He-Man, we get sore and quite frankly, bored lol. I mean think of it the other way round, if a woman managed to train herself to orgasm on her command an hour into sex...wouldnt you just think "hmmm ok well I aint turning her on, shes decided when and where she cums" Thats how I feel about it. I like it to be real, and if my guy cums after 30 seconds sometimes, I take it as a huge compliment that I just drove him so crazy he couldnt help it. Thats hot to me, and I assume other women too. Maybe some want marathon men but some dont :D
i think it pschological more than some spray or pill. try "extra safe" condoms as their thickness kills a lot of the sensitivity so prob wont be as stimulated