Female, 43, and 9, all male.
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33 and just 1, my wife.
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I’m 56 and all 9 of mine have been women. Some of you have been real busy.
Before I met the OH, I was on plenty of fish, pretty much edited by mod every night!
I’m over 20 now, more women than men, all regulars (no one offs), and the numbers are growing every year. Husband is nearly 30, nearly all women, again no one offs and numbers still growing.
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I’m 42.
13 women, 1 man.
Male 43, just 1 my wife
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Male 67… 7 and lots of other very intimate liasons.
Do I wish it was more when single, id definitely say yes.
I was quite shy with women, but if turning clock back as the person i am today id be much less so.
Male, 64 years old, 10 in relationships, probably about 30 with friends with benefits, and long term relationships with professional ladies.
And may the total keep rising!!
Im 66 about 30 - 35 Lovers & GF’s Plus a quite a few professional ladies
I am 66 and my tally is 3 including my husband. It could have been very many more but after the first two i became much more wary and selective. I had a few other boyfriends but was not intimate with them as they never lasted more than a month or so.
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Is it only me who hates the whole body count thing? We live in such a shit world, that where higher the number is some form of bragging rights. I’ve heard men even have a full on list with every name and a rating 
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I have a list with names and rankings.
My wife #1
No one else 
It does mean she’s the best I have ever slept with, but also the worst so who knows
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Early 30’s and 1, my long term partner.
I wish I could have experienced more women, I really want to but I don’t want to cheat. The only saving grace is that what I lack in body count I make up for with amount. I have had a lot of sex with my partner but I still have that itch to experience something new with other women.
I hope that you actually have this list written down somewhere just in case you forget.
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Some women too. List making isn’t a male exclusivity!
Agree with you on the general principle.
A high body count simply implies you were more likely to catch STDs.
Of more importance to me is the quality of the intimacy I’ve had with the various people I’ve been with, and what it meant to me (and hopefully to them!).
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As a woman, I’d be very embarrassed having any sort of list but I guess its more of a generation thing. The fact higher is seen as better, is crazy.
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I’m 49 and I’ve lost count, it’s between 250 and 300 and I’m completely fine with that, I’d change nothing.
I’ve always been very promiscuous and highly sexed and half of those were when I was younger and the rest when I became a swinger.
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As i have said i have only had three but it could have been a lot more. In my younger years i am afraid many of my boyfriends didnt get past the kissing stage before coming in their pants, so for a long time after my second relationship until i met my then to be husband i remained single through choice as i just couldnt be bothered with it. I still enjoyed myself but no sexual involvement.
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This is so not tru