Hi, My OH and I enjoy bondage fun. I love being the dominant one when it comes to bondage. I feel so much mor confident when I am in control. We have some toys which we already use for bondage, will list them below. Does anyone have any ideas of other toys we could use or tips or techniquesfor myself being dominant? I haven’t had bondage fun for a while. There has been a lot going on for my OH so she has not been feeling up to that kind of fun which I have been respecting. The toys that we all ready use are; under the bed restraints (one of my favourite), ball gag, blindfold, mini wand and a slightly larger version (non mains powered) butterfly and some over the door restraints as well.We are more entertained by the light side of bondage and are not looking to do anal or anything like that and don’t want to go into the more extreme side like nipple clamps and things like that. Also does anyone have any ideas for any clothing, costumes or lingerie that might be good for my OH to be in. We have some already that I love seeing her in. 😉
Blindfold and a peacock feather can be fun 😊 Also clothing wise I have just ordered this and can't wait for it to arrive 😁 www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=37990
We are very much getting into bondage more seriously.
Other items I would suggest:-
Spreader bar
Flogger as this can be used for light sensual strokes or a good thrashing, whichever you prefer
Labia spreader
Wrist to thigh restraints
Hogtie
The list is really endless depending on how far you want to go.
As for lingerie/outfits?? Mr LNT likes me in just stockings so my flesh is exposed to all sensations.
Enjoy xx
Oooh never heard of a labia spreader... Off to look now lol
Thanks for the ideas. There are certainly things that I will consider. There are some that I don’t think my OH will like though. Never used a peacock feather before. Bex84 the lingerie you shared looked nixe. Don’t think it is my OH cup of tea. This is what I’m planning to get some time soon https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=34095 Does anyone have any tips for me while I am being dominant?
Lovely suggestions! I'd add:
Collar so she remembers her place. Possibly with a leash. I like this one: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35339
Clitoral suction vibrator. This is one of my favourite toys, but it's sold out... https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38998 There are lots of others though!
Dildo/ vibrator to be used on her - how about a g spot vibrator? https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=36047
Temperature/ wax play: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=35073
Bondage tape - both to tie her and to make pretty designs on her body https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=71
There's this great article on LH blog with info and tips: https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2010/10/13/sexual-domination-how-do-i-dominate-my-boyfriend-or-girlfriend/
Collar and lead Olso spreader bar a leather gag and maby nipple clamps and whips all good items the list is endless, have fun
Thanks for the ideas. We already have a collar which we use and a vibrator. Thanks for the ideas will keep these in mind that clitoral suction vibrator looks interesting