Hi all it’s was wondering if anyone has any suggestions for bondage, as in your favourite ones thanks
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Hello,
Sure thing, it’s a huge part of what I do. When you say favourites, do you have anything in mind? Rope? Cuffs? Positions?
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Ooft! What a rabbit hole you can go down! Have you explored any sort of bondage before at all? You can go from as simple as tape and cuffs, up to really complex rope work like shibari and kinbaku.
By all means take inspiration from what you read and see elsewhere, but don’t necessarily let that guide you in what to try first. Bondage always needs to be respected as a a potentially risky type of play if not done properly, so learning how to do it safely comes before learning how to really indulge in it.
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I do have a post here that might be helpful 
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It’s a good and useful article @Tenshadesandme wrote
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So ive tried bondage like cuffs and under bed restraints but wanted to try something different like rope maybe just for a different experience
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Shibari (rope bondage) is definitely a thing. You can probably find plenty of tutorials online though personally, my favourite book is “Showing You The Ropes” by Two Knotty Boys. It has photos, simple instructions and plenty of safety tips. Sometimes I tie shibari gauntlets on myself just because I find the pressure on my wrist helps me feel calmer.
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We mostly use leather velcro restraints, faux leather when possible. We also use Jute fiber shibari rope because it’s cheaper than hemp and still abrasive for the times when I hand out punishment fun for my, more masochistic slaves, if you’re into that. If you want something soft, cotton is good and easy to tie.
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