Understandable, we have friends and family in reading to maybe we’ll look at the high Wycombe after giving it a thought
Hello and welcome. I was think thinking that you call dungeons what I like to call my “playground”, but I’ll go with @JGood 's fairground analogy too. It’s not often that he and I see eye.
I jest, we are “simpatico” as he once called it - we often think in similar ways 
First things first, as others have said, just relax and take your time. 18 hours seems like a long time, but remember, you likely won’t spend all that time playing - there’ll be time for talking, exploring, negotiating and aftercare too.
Secondly, you don’t need to be a “seasoned pro” - JGood and I have more than a decade (more than two, for the dino over there 
)'s worth of experience each in BDSM, but neither of us would consider ourselves “pros”. We’re both still learning and exploring, and that’s okay. Everyone starts somewhere, everyone learns, adapts and grows.
Explore, but don’t feel compelled to do everything or try things you don’t know/aren’t sure of. It’s better to go with what you know/ works for you than wind up in a precarious situation your poor partner needs the fire brigade/ medical treatment for!
Don’t forget your rules, your boundaries and your safeword - it’s a new environment, but you’re still the same people. I know how Doms are for new places with new toys: as the sub-wife who once accompanied her Dom-husband to a fire play demo and had to give it to him real why fire play might look cool, but he was absolutely not ready to try it for real? Yeah, believe me, I know all about Doms and wanting to try new things. Sometimes I think to keep a bucket of Legos on standby, but then for the sadistically-minded, that’s probably just another thing to torture us poor sub souls with
Anyway, Mr Good likes to tag me in posts and give me things to do, and he knows perfectly well how to plan a scene, so I have no doubt at all that he can help you with this one.
Have fun, Sir
Oh, and if you’re at all curious, this is my bedroom/playroom. Designed and built by yours truly 
Well hello….
Firstly I would like to give thanks for all the advice and encouragement following my post…. It really is appreciated!!
Secondly… what a night….
to be honest we didn’t incorporate much of the ‘equipment in offer’ - anything penetrative etc as hygiene worries soon took over once we were settled - no matter because we have a fair collection of our own.
However… the furniture/winch/floggers and canes were absolutely spot on!
As some of you surmised, 18hours is a long time, we managed to have 3 sessions with a 2 hour nap in between a 4hour nap due to pure exhaustion!!
looking back on my initial post, I can see that I was getting too worked up over nothing. To be in the position in a relationship where you have both begun to explore - is golden. Once you’re there, your only limits are yourselves. 30 min after settling in and being in awe of our surroundings…. We got down to it.
We had a trial run with the st Christopers cross, the kneeling bench, the winch and even the cage.
At which point my OH built the courage uk to ask me….
Are you going to make me try the sybian?! And I really wanna check out the f machine….
My cock spasmed as she said it.
be careful guys… that sybian is one hell of a weapon… literally made her eyes water. Be careful or it could well render you redundant!!
After a few minutes of whole body shaking pleasure, we moved into the f machine. Hard to setup, but fuck me, once it was right… she turned into an absolute slutty mess. The panting, moaning and even squealing… sent me mad.
At this point we hadn’t even picked up a flogger or cane… she was just in her leg spreader, wrists tied to it, and so fucking wet it was dripping out of her.
To be continued.
Any feedback or request for more detail let me know
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Sounds like you had a great time!
Just a bit of general advice when playing, be careful with doing it while drunk. Your aim will be off, her pain tolerance will be higher and if doing bondage it’s harder to judge if things are going wrong. I made this mistake in my early days and it was a huge regret. Nothing seriously bad happened, but that was more from good luck.
Other than that, keep having fun, keep exploring and keep being kinky. 
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