Have any of you ever had this?
Yesterday and the day before that, I've been quite rough on my clit by pressing down hard on it with vibrators because I've found lots of little spots that I hadn't really discovered before and earlier I was using my fingers to rub it cause I felt like a skin on skin session and I was surprised to find that it felt sore and tender to the touch..
Too much of a good thing... I think you should give your clitoris a bit of time (2-3 days) to recover.
Ouch! I have never done that before and would personally give it a break for a few days, I hope it gets better soon!
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Ouchie - as the others have said just have a break for a few days. You could also hold a cool pack against it to soothe it - but make sure you wrap it in a towel first as you don't want frostbite too - lol. Hope you feel better soon xx
You did use some lube, didn't you?
I've never had this before, but had a bruised cervix and my word that was uncomfortable for a few days!
Think you may need to give your clip a few days R&R x
Quiet ones are worse! wrote:
You did use some lube, didn't you?
Yeah lol
Purring-Pussy wrote:
I've never had this before, but had a bruised cervix and my word that was uncomfortable for a few days!
Think you may need to give your clip a few days R&R x
A bruised cervix? Damn that must have been so painful lol
It's okay, perfectly normal. If it's not gone in a week, you should see a doctor but in all likelihood just be aware that you'll be tender for a day or two and it'll work itself out.
Ouch! I get this quite a lot too & it is mainly after I've been too rough with myself, normally I have to leave myslef for a few days (3/4 days) but during that it is extremely sensitive & the slightest touch has it in agony.
Ouch! Hopefully if it's left alone it will sort it self out. Try having a bath x
Delboy1991 wrote:
Ouch! Hopefully if it's left alone it will sort it self out. Try having a bath x
+1 a warm bath does help! ^_^
Moisturising might help too. Coconut oil is amazing stuff, though don't use it if you're going to use latex condoms shortly afterwards.
Maybe you need a more powerful toy, so that you're not pressing as hard? Or it's a friction thing? I know they always say not to use silicone toys with silicone lube, but quite a few people have gone into this thoroughly, including the chemistry, and decided that it's nonsense. I've certainly never had any problems combining them, and silicone lube is far and away the best I've found. Most water-based lubes I've tried caused irritation, and none of them lasted long during sex.
I have never been bruised from toys or play time but one time after wrestling my brother over a mobile phone he accidentally kicked me in the ladyparts and that left a bad bruise! Very painful, just give it some time to heal and be a bit more gentle in future. Xx
Ouch, been a while since I had this, but yes happened to me too. I just did not play for few days and it sorted itself out. Like after 2 days it was ok and I just gave it one or two more days to recover.
Did not even see a doctor, because it really solved itself fast.
Thanks for your help everyone :)
Yes have before and at the moment since Monday , do as the others say and give it a rest and time to heal, also try and avid any rubbing if you use toilet roll to dry after a wee for instance fold it and dab dry don't wipe .
I am not giving medical advice but what works well for me is Lanacane cream ( the original cream) just a little gently applied over the area with tip of finger but not rubbed after a wee and last thing at night, sure it helps to heal and certainly cools and sooths and can be used down there.
Obviously anyone uses this at their own risk and read the pack and leaflet etc.
Hope your healed soon x
Hi
My husband has bruised my clit a couple of times, it was an accident during the passion lol.
It was sooooo painful for a few days, but got better after that.
Good luck, hope you feel better soon xx