I agree that BDSM is misunderstood and that peoples perceptions can cloud their judgement. People think its all Christian Grey and his red room and its really not, although FSOG was my springboard into it, but I’ve never been able to experiment in it the way I do now.
I like knifeplay, my friend thinks I need to be sectioned but she doesn’t want to know anything about it or why. People have reasons for everything they do, and no one will ever know what that reason is unless they’re open to hearing it. And its ok if they’re not, theres a reason for that too.
To bring it back on topic, its the same with bukakke, personally its not for me, but people who are into it will have their reasons for it and it may be nothing to do with degradation. They may be a little offended at being told its degrading because it might not be for them.
It’s not for us, but if other people like doing it and everyone is fully consenting, then go for it. But cum in the eyes stings like hell! (so my OH says).
One on one is fine…i dont think i could take part in a group… would seem abusive to me, even if recipient was more than willing.
Just the feeling i have…also jacking off with other guys doesnt appeal
You do whatever you want, at the end of the day it’s each to their own. If this is something you wanted to take further then I would suggest visiting and adult club on a greedy girl night you shouldn’t have any problem getting plenty of volunteers there.
Bukkake and facials in general seemed to be the fetish of the time back in the days of 56k dial up modems. Lots of porn centred around it so I think it’s influenced people of that generation who were finding their kinks in those days.
I have read through this entire discussion and have to admit it is one of the most open and honest I have read on this forum so far despite the opposing views. A couple of quick points. Do not compare the experience to porn as it’s done for the shock value rather than a legitimate interest and a ton of it is fake. For those that see it as degrading, would you still see it as such were it gay males doing the same act? Honest question on my part. Second question for those that find it degrading, are you familiar with sex with multiple partners (more than just one other person at the same time) and the kinks they can bring? There is no right or wrong in sexuality. It all depends on what you or your partner are into and willing consent by both.
but she doesn’t want to know anything about it or why. People have reasons for everything they do, and no one will ever know what that reason is unless they’re open to hearing it. And its ok if they’re not, theres a reason for that too.