It's a bedroom staple, and usually considered the sex toy that guarantees zero to orgasm in under a minute. But I really think the bullet vibrator should be exploited to its full orgasmic potential! What are your favourite ways to use a bullet vibrator? I'm sure there are many creative ways to get the most out of these little pocket pals.
So, how do you use your bullet vibrator?
Here's some to get you started...
1. Go solo
Obviously the bullet is a reliable toy for achieving orgasm, but let it show you what it can do! If it's a multispeed bullet, try experimenting with the pulsations you use less often rather than cranking straight to your favourite. Let the bullet roam around, expanding its tingle territory to the inner thighs, perineum, anus, outer labia, or scrotum (yes, bullets are for men too!). Draw out the pleasure and don't forget - you can hold the bullet horizontally for more coverage as well as pinpointing with the rounded tip.
2. Go hands-free
Switch on your bullet and slip it into your underwear. Then challenge yourself to feel as much pleasure as possible without actually touching the bullet with your hands. Sit on a chair and grind against it, lie on the bed with a pillow between your legs and hump away, or hoik up your waistband and strut the house as you feel the deep vibrations. Give yourself permission to intervene when it all gets too much!
3. Get wet
Get a waterproof bullet and you can turn your bathroom into a vibrating playground too. What better way to make a bubble bath even more relaxing, or a shower more invigorating. Make sure you check the product description - the bullet needs to say 'Waterproof? Submersible' to withstand being complete submerged. The Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator, Tracey Cox Supersex 3 Speeds Secretvibe Bullet, Pin Ups 3 Speed Glitter Bullet and LoveHoney 7 Function Magic Bullet 2.0 are all suitable for underwater love.
4. Pimp your sex toys
There are many toys that are specially designed to fit a bullet in its base, like the Tracey Cox Supersex Advanced Anal Kit, but you don't need to stop there. Add a bullet to any closed-ended stroker sleeve, like the Tracey Cox Supersex Stroker, for a different sensation - or add the specially designed Fleshlight Mini Vibrating Bullet to your Fleshlight.
5. Massage
Weary shoulder and backs? Add a vibrating bullet to a sensual massage and roll the vibe over tired shoulders and backs to soothe away those aches and pains. We suspect, however, the massage will be short-lived as you or your lover will soon be wanting to stimulate you more intimately.
6. Foreplay
Let the bullet become an extension of your hand and stimulate your lover's neck, lower back, inner thighs and nipples. Alternate gentle strokes with your hands so they feel vibrations sometimes, and just the sensuality of your own touch at other times.
7. Oral sex
Unless you're an extremely selfless lover, you won't be able to withstand the eye-socket joggling and hold the bullet between your teeth, but holding it with your hand just under your jaw while you perform oral sex can give a little boost as you begin your work. On her, let the bullet help you stimulate her clitoris, or sit the bullet at the entrance to her vagina while you focus your attention on her clit. Let the bullet sit high above her clitoral hood for delectably teasing vibrations as you lick. On him, stroke the bullet over his testicles, or push either the rounded end or its length against his perineum while you focus on his penis. Trace the bullet up and down his shaft, or circle round the tip (carefully!). Take your cues from your partner so nothing becomes unbearably intense. For both men and women, a little anal attention is often a great way to enhance oral sex and using a bullet externally can be a comfortable way to introduce this.
8. During sex
Hold it, hold it! There are some positions where the bullet can sit happily in place, but a tiny slip in the wrong direction can thwart your efforts at the last minute so it's best to go for a position where you can easily direct the bullet to the right spot. Doggy style is always a great position for clitoral access, and if the woman props herself up with a pillow, she can easily use the bullet for her own pleasure - and he gets some vibrating pleasure too!