My GF and I want to try some all round Bum Fun, we have ordered the lube, a butt plug and a strap on.
Does anyone have some tips for a pair of Bum Fun newbies ...
I'm assuming you've never done this stuff before.
In this case, my recommendation would be, by God, put the butt plug and strap on away for a while. That's something you'll need to build up to, else you'll end up damaging yourselves. Build up to it, start off with fingers (it's a good idea to wear gloves), and add more fingers as you stretch and feel more comfortable. Lube is your friend, make sure you use plenty of it!
Hi funandfrolics
Again, the search button is always handy for questions. You could start with
and go on from there. But as Ecksvie says, if you are new to anal play, put away the butt plug and the strap on and take it nice and slow. Good luck and have fun!
I agree with Ecksvie, it'll take a while to build up to that, its a gradual process, lol.
And starting with a finger is defo the best place to start, me and the OH did this, and you build it up slowly, and always bare in mind, plenty of lube, and relax :)
Take it slow, and listen to your body, if something feels uncomfortable, then stop, so you prevent damage
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