Butt Plug Recommendations

Hi everyone!

We are relatively new to anal play and my fave butt plug so far is the LH Basic Spiral Plug (https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/butt-plugs/non-vibrating-butt-plugs/p/basics-spiral-butt-plug-4-inch/74472.html) but it won’t stay in while hubby is penetrating me. It just slides straight out :woman_facepalming:t2:

Does anyone have any suggestions of any other plugs that will stay in place during sex? Would the T shape be better? Or would glass/metal be better than silicone? I have a basic metal one (from a kit) and a glass one but the silicone is my preference. I like this size so something similar would be a bonus!

Thank you lovelies

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T-bar plugs are fantastic for staying in, we got one of these to test and it stayed in solid as you like every time we’ve used it. Plus it’s got some some good vibes as well. Anything like this will do the job for you.

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/butt-plugs/butt-plug-sets/p/lovehoney-triple-base-remote-control-rechargeable-anal-training-kit-3pc/a48941g86895.html

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Hi @Hails! Out of the truly body-safe materials (silicone, glass, stainless steel), silicone would be the best choice for the plug staying in better. Glass and steel are smoother/slippier typically so could slide out easier because of that. The design will be a large factor, you want something with a thinner ‘neck’ (connecting the main part of the plug to the base) as this helps hold the plug in, since a smaller neck will not keep your hole open as much (if the neck were closer to the size of the main part of the plug). The T-bar plugs or similar design ibanez recommended should work for this! These b-vibe plugs tend to be more expensive than others, but with a very thin neck you definitely shouldn’t have a problem with it staying in! This is the ‘medium’, there should be a ‘small’ too, but I don’t see it on the lovehoney AU site.
https://www.lovehoney.com.au/sex-toys/butt-plugs/non-vibrating-butt-plugs/p/b-vibe-snug-plug-2-medium-weighted-silicone-butt-plug-4-inch/a38784g71367.html

P.S. I am guessing you are upgrading to silicone as your next butt plug, from your current PVC plug? Also just a PSA, some metal plugs/toys are not as body safe as they are just chrome-plated metal, instead of fully stainless steel (which would be safe).

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Thank you for the recommendation. I’ll check that set out :smiling_face:

Thank you for the very detailed response. The stainless steel one I have is LH brand so I don’t think it is plated but I will definitely keep that in mind for future purchases.

I am open to exploring any material, but yes I think silicone would be a preference. I had actually looked at the one you have suggested but wasn’t sure because of the weight of it. I might need to have a look for the smaller version.

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Matt has hit the nail on the head - aim for a thinner neck relative to the widest part of the plug. Silicone is really good, especially for beginners :+1:

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Glass and metal are brilliant for longer use as they don’t need as much top up on lube but to stop a plug coming out you’ll probably be better getting a shape that has a thinner shaft and bigger bulb…

Also I’d always recommend a T bar base for ease of use and comfort knowing it’ll not vanish up at any point! :sweat_smile:

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The wife uses the 4.5 butt tingler butt plug now and then during sex it’s silicone and kind of big but once in she loves it and it stays in place has a good T- bar base. Plus has 10 different vibrations we both feel.

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Hi Everybody,

Just recently purchased few weeks ago ;

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/nexus-revo-extreme-remote-control-rotating-prostate-massager/a44067g79447.html

I was a bit skeptical on getting it, but broke down and purchased it. The shipping was great and fast, and loved the vanilla plan shipped package. The price point from LoveHoney was great cheaper then other sites!

Once I got it, I was impressed at the quality, shape and build as I have had a few other types and brands. Although this unit is more a advanced skilled type of plug in shape and size, it can be used by intermediate skilled people! I found the use and ease of using it was awesome and great. The fullness and fit was better then I though it would be. The multiple settings are also awesome and feel amazing and great! The ease of cleaning it and it’s care was just as ease and good to do.

The only down side I found was the charging time of the main unit that took 3 hours but the run time was well worth the wait as I was able to use it multiple times for extend times with out having to charge it depending on power levels of use! The remote unit charge in 1 hour after the main unit charged up. Love the magnetic charge cord that does both the remote and the main unit!

The settings from the clock wise to counter clock wise tip with 2 setting on each makes for a very stimulating feel and that you can change up! The vibrator and it’s setting are awesome that it has multiple intensities and pulses to enhance that feeling and pleasure one is looking for!

Although it’s size is for intermediate to advanced, I found that a quality lube that LoveHoney carries and sell greatly helps with placement and feel during play time. The quality is awesome and yet to find a downside other then charging time, but that also can be looked at as fore play in the taught of when it’s ready and time to play to enhance that pleasure as one waited for it? So is it really a downfall?

The shape and full feel of the Nexus-revo extreme was great and the feel from the rotating head to vibrator makes the feel awesome with it’s sensations. Have used it many times with some of the best and greatest orgasmic climaxes from it. I can say form the use of it, one can still feel the sensations and pleasure that it brings and gives from hours latter till the next day that makes you want it more!

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K