I think both cumming on command, and also the ability to wait and hold it but not lose it, would be a great skill to have.
I’ve only ever had, and still have, one chastity cage. Purchases it from LH actually and it fits well. Only thing is after a few hours of wear my right testicle seem to not enjoy wearing it as much. Certainly not going to push it though.
I currently have it tucked away in a closet drawer. If OH ever even accidentally opens that drawer it’ll be the first thing she sees lol
Not sure she’s ever seen one. I fantasize about her finding it one day and that she gets hit with the simultaneous feelings of “What on earth IS this??” but also a curiosity she can’t turn away from.
In my fantasy she’s taken aback by what she found. She wonders about this side to me that she’s never known what that device even is.
Afger a couple days she runs a few Google searches. “Hmm, male chastity…” Her feelings of fear fade being replaced by a growing fascination and almost excitement.
A few more days of pondering pick the lock to her Dom side, a side she didn’t even know she had.
Finally she decides to confront me, telling me what she found and how she’s going to be my Mistress from this day forward.
And I’m in chastity and servitude from that day forward, living happily ever after lol