Can anyone recomend a decent strap on & harness?

Up untill recently my partner and I were virgins to the whole strap on experience. We bought the two way strap on from love honey and thoroughly enjoyed it. (although was a bit dissapointed with the fit and the way my end kept popping out) anyway after only a few uses the bloody thing snapped on us (read my reveiw) so we are very eager to replace it. Any suggestions????

I'd like to know too. I'm looking for something that looks and feels more natural XP

I'd like to know too. I'm looking for something that looks and feels more natural XP

We have a Tantus bend over beginners kit, http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=809
The two silicone dildos you get with it might soon feel a little too small though so we now use a Tantus Charmer which fits the same harness. (as would most dildos with a flared base) http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=5208

Having said that this one looks very similar at a fraction of the cost.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=8692

Queen Mab where have you been, Coronet Street Hoxton N1 by any chance????

Tallboy

Well, we really like the Feeldoe and the FunFactory Share. They do give good stimulation at the wearer's end which can be lacking for some people using a conventional strapon. We use these with a harness. The Stockroom 'Ultimate' works well with these types of dildo as it can be adjusted to suit the low position of these dildos (we have now made our own harness that is quicker to get on and off but the 'ultimate' does the job)

Me & my boyfriend used this....

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11881

we both loved it!!!

Still in the sex toys box....need to use it again very very soon!

x

Nice strapon but way way too small !!!

Tallboy

Tell me about it. I'm currently looking for a nice thick 8 inch strap on vibrator.

Any ideas anyone?

Thanks!

Don't forget that you can use cock sleeves and extensions to give extra length and girth to your dildos. The result may look like it breaks a few arms limitations agreements but its the effect that counts.

I need a big strap on to satisfy my boyfriends desires...i don't think a sleeve or extension would work for me considering I don't have a penis!

Strapon! wrote:

I need a big strap on to satisfy my boyfriends desires...i don't think a sleeve or extension would work for me considering I don't have a penis!

Let me explain - we use the regular feeldoe but the 'horse' end is a bit short and not quite as big in the girth as we would like so we put a 3 inch silicone cock extension on it. It now clears the wax out of my ears

Ohhhhhhhhhh I get you! So you're using an extension on a toy.

Hmmm....I just want to find that perfect vibrating strap on.

It's like finding a woman the perfect ring....but I want to find his ring the perfect strap-on. If you know what I mean.

I'm sure i'll find 1 eventually! x

We are also looking for a strap-on its so i can wear it because we are planning on our little sex marathon,We want to see how long she can go for and how many orgasm's she can have,Im after a hollow one so my cock goes inside it,So it kind of feels real

I ordered this one yesterday, was here today but I wasn't in so I need to pick it up from the depot in the morning. I'll give you the lowdown after we've tried it!!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16276

hi,

i am looking for advice on the best double strap on, i have looked at this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14015 but there are no reviews as yet

(btw this is for me - female- to use on a male partner)

i have looked at the feeldoes also (or rather the budget versions) and although i would still like to wear it internally, i would feel that added security of a harness would be beneficial! can you use these "strapless" ones with a harness and still wear them internally?

my third choice would be this: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11881

any tips and/or advice would be greatfully received!

(he has only had a strap on used on him once, some time ago, i have never used one on anyone before)

thanks in advance!

In my experience, dildos with balls on them are uncomfortable to wear in a strap-on harness because the balls press in uncomfortably.

I would recommend getting a separate harness with which you can use any harness compatible dildo. That way your choices are far more numerous. This harness can be used with the feeldoe and the like:

http://www.beautifulanddamned.co.uk/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=1&products_id=62

These are some other reasonably priced harnesses made by an excellent leather worker:

http://www.beautifulanddamned.co.uk/catalog/index.php?cPath=1

From my experience, when it comes to strap-on play I prefer simply to focus on taking my partner with it and save my orgasm til afterwards. I don't like having one end inside me during use, I find it too distracting and both of us get less pleasure out of the whole experience. Also, I have found that harnesses fit much poorer and are a lot more uncomfortable to use with a double ended dildo than with a single ended one.

So as a personal opinion, I think that strap-on play turns out to be rather pointless for me if my partner has some unrealistic expectation that I should somehow orgasm whilst fucking him with a dildo. I prefer to fuck with the strap-on in an excellently fitting harness and then orgasm myself afterwards.

Hi,

Thanks for that superb advice!

Certainly makes a lot of sense

Ok, could you recommend me and single ones off this site (or any other site)?

Are they good for the male G-spot also? (this would give him a nice surprise LOL!)

Lubyanka wrote:

In my experience, dildos with balls on them are uncomfortable to wear in a strap-on harness because the balls press in uncomfortably.

I would recommend getting a separate harness with which you can use any harness compatible dildo. That way your choices are far more numerous. This harness can be used with the feeldoe and the like:

http://www.beautifulanddamned.co.uk/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=1&products_id=62

These are some other reasonably priced harnesses made by an excellent leather worker:

http://www.beautifulanddamned.co.uk/catalog/index.php?cPath=1

From my experience, when it comes to strap-on play I prefer simply to focus on taking my partner with it and save my orgasm til afterwards. I don't like having one end inside me during use, I find it too distracting and both of us get less pleasure out of the whole experience. Also, I have found that harnesses fit much poorer and are a lot more uncomfortable to use with a double ended dildo than with a single ended one.

So as a personal opinion, I think that strap-on play turns out to be rather pointless for me if my partner has some unrealistic expectation that I should somehow orgasm whilst fucking him with a dildo. I prefer to fuck with the strap-on in an excellently fitting harness and then orgasm myself afterwards.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14011

this one?

planetX wrote:

Hi,

Thanks for that superb advice! [...] Ok, could you recommend me and single ones off this site (or any other site)?

Are they good for the male G-spot also? (this would give him a nice surprise LOL!)

Lubyanka wrote:

This harness can be used with the feeldoe and the like:

http://www.beautifulanddamned.co.uk/catalog/product_info.php?cPath=1&products_id=62

These are some other reasonably priced harnesses made by an excellent leather worker:

http://www.beautifulanddamned.co.uk/catalog/index.php?cPath=1

I included some links to harnesses above. I have no personal experience of the harnesses LH sell here.

In my experience, a harness is all about the fit. I find that cheaper harnesses just aren't as pleasurable to use, because the fit can be uncomfortable, or it can loosen over time, at which point the dildo can move independently. Any movement in the harness at all means the dildo feels less like part of you, and more like some toy which sometimes moves with you and sometimes doesn't.

Discomfort and/or unwanted movement can distract from the pleasure, which totally defeats the purpose, in my opinion. So I invested in a really decent harness and I am absolutely delighted with it. I don't think I'll ever need another one - I'm sure it will last for my lifetime, if not longer. I've had it since 2006 and it keeps getting better and better. It fits like a dream, secure, comfortable, and can take any dildo with a flared base. I've even worn it outside my trousers without a dildo to parties, as a kinky fashion accessory. :)

http://www.top-to-bottom-leathers.co.uk/itemdetail.asp?mid=14&iid=102

It is really pricey, but in my opinion it is absolutely worth every penny. :)

As for prostate stimulation, I would suggest that you get your partner's consent before you start poking around for it. In my experience, surprises of this nature can go badly wrong, unfortunately.

Any dildo will stimulate the prostate more or less, just by virtue of being near it. Stimulating the prostate to its best effect can take a lot of practice, so I would recommend taking it slow and careful, and just enjoy the process. :)