Is squirting something everyone can do? I can make myself really wet but that’s as far as I can go with it. I have no problems having orgasms. Rubbing my clit, being fingered, orally, fucking myself with a toy, vibrator or whatever. I can cum…but I can’t squirt. I love licking my own juices off my OH’s face after I cum but we want to take it to the next level.
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Im not sure if everyone can do it. Im sure someone else will be able to tell you that but i didnt think i could until i got a clitoral suction toy and that did the trick. Still cant any other way though!
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Hello and welcome @dloves2lickk 
I think every body is different, so it won’t be a universal thing that everyone can do. It’s a very popular subject on here though, and there are lots of topics with tips and advice if you have a Search. 
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Hello welcome to the forum 
Hi @dloves2lickk welcome
As @Ian_Chimp mentioned loads of threads on squirting on the forum to read amd gain valuable tips 
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Welcome! As everyone else is mentioning, everybody and every body is different. If you search “squirting” you’ll get lots of threads with suggestions and stories of what did it for those folks.
Just from my limited experience as a man, my wife has squirted once in our 18 years together. It was relatively recently, and just the once. It involved a long afternoon session together with lots of edging via me performing oral and using a variety of toys to pleasure her while she was tied down to the mattress (under-the-bed restraints for the win!). Final orgasm occurred with her Womanizer and Big Swirly and she soaked the duvet.
Never happened before, hasn’t happened since, despite similar play. I found it incredibly sexy, she was slightly put off by it I think. I’ve held the tension of expressing that I thought it was hot without putting any pressure on her to repeat or “achieve” it in any way. She described it as a very high intensity orgasm and she just felt completely worn out, like she couldn’t “hold it in” after such a long session of teasing, but did not describe it as feeling specifically different from any other orgasm she’s ever had (nor did she identify the intensity as any greater than past Os that built up similarly).
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For me to squirt I have to use a clit stimulator like a womaniser and a dildo. As my orgasm builds I hold the dildo inside me - I have this annoying issue with pushing out when I orgasm - I can feel the pulsing around the dildo and then I resume the fucking with the dildo and that makes me squirt.
Squirting does not make my orgasm more intense though, its not a goal for me and I find it really hard to relax enough to let it go when I’m with someone.
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My wife is a squirter. She would rather not be able to do it as she never knows which session it will happen on. (Mostly every time). It means having a towel or squirt blanket under her every time we have sex. The odd time we chose to not have something under her it resulted in having to wash all of the bedding.
I know it was this toy https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/non-realistic-dildos/p/desire-luxury-beaded-stainless-steel-dildo/a37085g68479.html
We were using when she first squirted. It didn’t take long until it was happening with me inside her. She uses a bullet toy and near her Orgasm building she switches to a womaniser suction toy.
It was happening at the same time as her Orgasm originally but now she will squirt first and then Orgasm up to a minute or 2 later. It is a lot of fluid that comes out. She has started to empty her bladder before sex to see if that reduces the amount of fluid she squirts, but I can assure you it doesn’t. Which shows that it is not pee.
We don’t know how she does it and she would like to not be able to do it, but it is something that she does and we have adjusted to it.
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I had never squirted until my husband bought me my we vibe melt clitoral suction toy. This is the only time i seem to be able to do it
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I can squirt but only under specific conditions. Have to be well hydrated, really turned on and then go some heavy g spotting for a reasonable amount of time.
So like people said, everyone varies 
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Hey welcome to the forum 
I’ve no experience in this area but I know there’s many members who’ll be able to help out with this
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This 
but I also need to be very relaxed - not at all worried about potential mess, and if I put pressure on myself to do it, it wont happen!
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Agreed. Towels are a must
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I am in my 30’s and never squirted and never thought I was a squirted, until a little while ago, I new my husband would like it if could so I tried and was able to. I will give you some tips, I have a clit sucker toy and found this did the job. The first time I squirted I was on my own I put a towel on the bed and used my toy, I was relaxed and when I felt like I needed to pee rather than stopping I carried on and squirted. It wasn’t pee as there was no smell and clear liquid. Make sure you drink loads before you try to squirt I find if I haven’t drank there’s nothing to come out. Now I have relaxed about it my husband can make me squirt through fingering and oral
My tips are:
•put a towel under you
• relax
• make sure you drink enough ( I find the more I drink the more I squirt, sometimes gushing)
• don’t stop if you feel like your going to pee
•try it first on your own so you don’t put pressure on yourself if it doesn’t work.
I really hope these tips help
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Welcome to the forum!
One thing I do know about squirting is that pressuring yourself (or feeling worked up about not having squirted) can certainly make it more difficult. I didn’t use to squirt, it’s something my partner and I explored together and we talked about things and explored different toys and how they made me feel. Personally, initially for me it was being in the right headspace as well as being really aroused that did it. Oh, and the first toy which got me there was the Lovehoney G-spot vibrator
Now, it happens at various points and not always through stimulation around my clit or g-spot. But I still have to be in the right mood for it, or it doesn’t happen.
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My wife would like to squirt , so i’ll let her read these tips
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My Wife is desperate to squirt, it’s the one thing she would love to achieve but despite all the tips and techniques that we’ve read here on LH and on the Internet it hasn’t happened, we think she got close once but the worry she was about to pee herself made her pull away and possibly ruined the moment, she now knows that was probably the moment shes been waiting for and as much as we try she’s never got close since, doesnt mean we haven’t stop trying though. 
I’ve found it really depends on so many things. I’ve never found the same thing twice can even work. Best to relax and not set it as a target. Hit the g spot and work on the clit together with any other stimulation you can get. And don’t stop!
Just saw this article on the Lovehoney blog