On the one hand, loads of resources out there that purport to have “surefire” techniques to get any woman to squirt. If she’s interested and turned on by it then it certainly helps move toward doing the research and the work to explore willingly the sensations that direction.
On the other hand, like many things sexual and otherwise performance related, adding pressure is not always conducive to desirable outcomes and so by very nature of trying to squirt you can inadvertently foil any progress toward squirting.
On the third hand - because you have four hands between you - there’s maybe a middle ground where you do the research together, communicate openly as you explore and experiment with techniques and sensations expressly without intent to “achieve” anything, and you can avoid the pressure trap to explore your way there.
For our part my wife has squirted dramatically once (2 or 3 years ago?), less dramatically a second time (earlier this year), and is not a stranger to rather wet and creamy orgasms that could on occasion be described as gushing. While I found the squirting very hot and was very excited about the prospect, she found it rather a distraction and a bother and while both occasions the squirting accompanied VERY intense orgasms, the squirt itself did nothing for her but generate an unexpected load of laundry. 