May be a dumb question, but can squirting be taught/learned or is it a natural ability. I only ask as my wife has recently wanted to watch porn with woman squirting and she never has but is curious. I don’t know how to help her but like the idea of it…. 
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The jury still seems to be out on this one. Some say every woman can manage it, but other women, myself included, have never managed it. Some say that porn-squirting is a special effects thing (you’re probably familiar with the “it’s just pee” theory) or even that pornstars fill their vaginas with water prior to squirting. Relaxation seems to be core to making it happen, so much would be about her ability to relax into it. Read up some tips on making it happen, but don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t happen. As I say, some of us have never managed it, and that’s perfectly okay too. Good luck to you both on your squirting adventures 
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So I always find being hydrated helps and then it’s really down to lots of pressure on my g spot for a prolonged period of time. The more turned on I am the more it’s likely to happen. There are definitely some positions it’s more likely to make me squirt but (me laying face down on bed and OH fingering me and me on top with him inside me and using vibrator on my clit)- but on the whole for me it’s towards the end of a long session - hope that helps!
Also relaxing and not worrying about feeling like you’re going to pee!
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Thank you and appreciate the information 
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Stimulation of the G-Spot can produce arousal that leads to squirting. Squirting is the rapid flow of the female ejaculate out of the urethra. This is not urination, but it may give the woman the sensation that she is going to urinate before it happens. In squirting, a usually clear fluid is fed into the urethra. It is not urine. When the G-Spot is aroused, the fluid can be released into the urethra. The fluid can come out in a stream from the urethra, hence the name squirting. The G-Spot needs firm pressure. In order to find the G-Spot, initial arousal is necessary. The G-Spot is located 2 to 3 inches up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening and the urethra. It can be manually located by inserting 2 curled fingers into the vagina and using a “come here” motion. Once the spot is located, deliberate, direct pressure is used, building the intensity. Many women find that pressing just above the pubic bone while stimulating the G-Spot internally is needed. Since pressure is being applied, it produces a feeling that she is about the urinate. If you want more info on this, you can go to my website shown in my member information.
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Yes this does help, thank you
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Thank you for the detailed information. I can hit her g-spot with the finger technique you suggested and she likes it, but it usually is not prolonged. We did recently purchase a g-Spot vibrator and she is really starting to like it she says. I’ll mention to try and keep pressure on it for a longer period and see if that helps. Thanks again… 
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I don’t know if it can be taught but it definitely can be learned. My wife only started squirting a tear or so ago but once she learned to recognise the feelings she’s squirting more and more often.
She can also tell, during the build up, whether she’s likely to squirt or not when she comes.
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The clitoris is actually much bigger than the little nub that is external. Most of the clitoris is internal, and the G-Spot is located on the main body of the clitoris, internally. Note that it is easier to find the G-Spot if you stimulate her first (clitoral stimulation). That will stimulate the G-Spot to swell, since is located on the clitoris. When the G-Spot is swollen; it feels like a ridged bump, kind of like the texture of a walnut shell. Fingering her inside and putting pressure just above the pubic bone keeps the pressure on both side to increase arousal. The arousal can cascade into a full-blown G-Spot orgasm.
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Awesome 
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Yes a g spot vibrator works well with me too 
Good luck and keep trying- it will probably happen when you least expect it x
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Awesome, I will continue the quest for sure 
I know the feeling you describe once finding the g-spot, so I’m certain I’m there, bust most likely not staying there with pressure like needed. I’m actually very curious as well now as I’ve never been with a woman who does this.
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I’m game for it, looks and sounds amazing. 
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If want to see actual demonstrations of the technique, you can checkout the video from sex educator Tristan Taormino, “Expert Guide to the G-Spot” (2007). This is available from the Adult DVD Marketplace website. To show the demonstrations, the video is necessarily explicit, but it is not porn.
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We will definitely check this out!!!
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It is a wonderful feeling and taste when a woman squirts, like breast milk it is slightly sweet and the sensation of it splashing you in your face or your abdomen gets wet as you both rub it into your skin is amazing and you never forget your first with each partner. Lots of fluids extended play and orgasm denial as well as the right manipulation and care free attitude to what might get wet. So let’s keep learning new things.
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There are definitely ways that you can encourage squirting there’s a really nice little Article that LH has written. Not every woman on earth will be able to squirt so if she can’t quite get there, don’t worry! They estimate that (roughly) only about 54% of women can actually squirt so I’m not sure if it’s something that can be learned. Always worth giving it a try though! (:
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I can squirt using my wand. Something i discovered on my own and ive done it a few times when my Husbands been watching. The alone discovery helped me to enjoy it more as i became comfortable with the sensation and the ‘oh my god, whats just happened’ feeling.
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On the one hand, loads of resources out there that purport to have “surefire” techniques to get any woman to squirt. If she’s interested and turned on by it then it certainly helps move toward doing the research and the work to explore willingly the sensations that direction.
On the other hand, like many things sexual and otherwise performance related, adding pressure is not always conducive to desirable outcomes and so by very nature of trying to squirt you can inadvertently foil any progress toward squirting.
On the third hand - because you have four hands between you - there’s maybe a middle ground where you do the research together, communicate openly as you explore and experiment with techniques and sensations expressly without intent to “achieve” anything, and you can avoid the pressure trap to explore your way there.
For our part my wife has squirted dramatically once (2 or 3 years ago?), less dramatically a second time (earlier this year), and is not a stranger to rather wet and creamy orgasms that could on occasion be described as gushing. While I found the squirting very hot and was very excited about the prospect, she found it rather a distraction and a bother and while both occasions the squirting accompanied VERY intense orgasms, the squirt itself did nothing for her but generate an unexpected load of laundry. 
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For me good clitoral stimulation always leads to me squirting, and then stimulation of my g spot through toys, fingers or his cock will bring on further squirting. If the toy, fingers or cock comes out as I’m cumming then it’s a fountain all over us, in all directions
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