Right everyone, I know alcohol can reduce your sexual pleasure at times but I was just wondering how many of you guys have the same problem (both men and women) my partner whenever he’s had even one drink just can’t finish at all, like we can be going for hours and hours and we will just get sore and tired before he cums.. I thought it was strange until looking back, I realised I hadn’t actually managed to have an orgasm while I’ve been drunk. I’m guessing it’s possibly a common thing as alcohol is known for sometimes reducing sexual functions and what not but I was just wondering if any of you have the same problem or if not what you find helps? Don’t get me wrong the sex is great lol it’s like he’s got all the energy in the world haha but neither of us end up climaxing.. just curious that’s all!
Come to think of it , I can cum after a drink or two . But not once I am getting a bit drunk . When a much younger lad , I could cum even fairly drunk . I think you should experiment and do a study and chart at what point and what amount has that effect . Now class , this is everybody's assignment ! I think a moderator should make a chart if enough people rise to the assignment .
It's a well known effect of alcohol although some people are affected more than others.
Tipsy and I get overt horny , less inhibited and as such play time (although solo) is more relaxed but loud lol! Past that point though I usually just fall asleep but if I do tayawake to play It will usually be frustrating because I'm still very horny but I don't have the mental focus or energy to achieve orgasm without a struggle.
I can have a few drinks and still enjoy sex as normal, but I've definitely experienced inability to cum when properly drunk.
Interesting one...
These are my observations:
We usually have sex at night. My husband doesn't always drink but I generally have a few glasses of wine. We don't do quickies - we take our time, dress up, get the toys out. I can easily have several orgasms before PiV sex. They are like waves.
If I play around solo in the mornings (no wine) I tend to climax two or three times. It is more powerful and obvious, but fewer of them and without the bonus of being held in my husband's arms.
So, swings and roundabouts. Might be better to stay off the wine but it helps as an aphrodisiac in other ways!
after a drink i find the irony of sex is a killer!bothlossen up an get knikyer than wud sober,my gf gets loud and talks dirty where as sober would be very reserved,yet could go for hours n not cum.next morning she evens cums b4 me!
Depends on the level of drink. A few drinks is ok, but anything over a level that I feel inebriated and I generally don't orgasm. The upside is that PIV sex lasts as long as Mrs Sen wants (or we both get puffed).
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I find the morning after drinking my penis is crazy sensitive. So sex the following day is always a good session.
Yes, this is the flipside: hungover sex is just the best!
The trick is to downplay how hungover you are until after the sex, because nobody finds groaning, farting hungover people very arousing...
Interestingly I am sure this came up on "the sex clinic" and someone that Jess talked to. I believe she advised mixing things up and trying something new as it can be a psychological block. Say it's happened before and he now associates not having an orgasm with having a drink. Jess put it way better if I am honest. If I am drunk I can't cum, I can barely keep it up 😁 but a couple of drinks doesn't cause any problems.
My partner and I get pretty horny after a few drinks and I think I enjoy it more because I'm more relaxed. He doesn't seem to have a problem with cumming but I can't even climax with sober sex so not much changes for me in that regard, lol.
Hmmm...I don't think I've tried drunk solo sex with toys yet. That's going on my list!