I think it would be good for your boyfriend to begin take some control of you. Little easy things to start with like choosing which underwear you wear each day - maybe you let him smell the clean fresh panties in the morning then he helps you put them on, and in the day you send him a photo of them, taking them off or letting him take them off to let him feel and smell them again in the evening - at which point he can decide if he wants to do anything or whether you have to put them back on for a while longer. Maybe he’d regard much dampness as a sign of naughtiness that ought to be punished. Perhaps you ought to ask his permission whenever you want to masturbate and if he allows it, he should be the one to decide how much longer you need to wait until he wants to watch you, how and where you do it and what toy you use. You could also browse the LH shop together but you have to read out the descriptions and review comments as he chooses and he makes the decision on which ones, if any, get bought - depending of course on how good you’ve been. You could also have a daily session of reading out loud to him what you’ve posted in the forum and what the responses were - perhaps while lying across his knees with your ass exposed so he can stroke or slap as required; he might consider it very naughty if you’d got other people aroused by what you’d written. The threads below should be suitable for this. 
And in this one posting so your boyfriend can understand what you felt, what turned you on, when you read it to him.