Caning/flogging/spanking question

When the friend I used to visit gave me a caning/flogging, she would run her fingers over my buttocks and marked areas, which heightened the sensation for me. I found it very erotic.

Do you do similar?

Is it purely to add to the sensation or is it so the person doing the caning can assess the damage?

I never asked her.

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@Outdoorseyguy -I love to hear you got a good spanking and I do the same - after using the cane I will feel the mark with my fingers as the skin raises and my husband likes me do it as well …

Hope you enjoy :paddle:

It’s whatever the dominant what’s to do it for if they are more masochistic then it’s to inspect the work they are doing, if it’s for the pleasure, then it’s more sadistic. There’s just no hard rule.

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On one of our recent sessions with our leather tawse, my o/h was somewhat concerned at how red I was. She decided to see if she could kiss it better. This then developed into quite a pleasant few minutes of rimming.

Our preferred style is CFNM and she spanks me, sometimes too hard.

If the roles are reversed she only tolerates light tickling and gentle flogging with our LH ‘nine-tails’ thingy.

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My wife canes, floggs, whips, paddles, or crops me in groups of 10 strokes at a time (5 each side) then rubs the area with her hands to ease the discomfort before starting again.

Once she’s finished she may peg me making sure to rub her jeans or whatever clothing against my sore bum.

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@rockstar - totally agree with your statement- spank and then peg your man on a regular basis - but reward him every so often with a good caning…

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I used to do similar things for my old sub, mostly just because I liked touching their ass :see_no_evil:

I never really thought about the heightened sensations, I bet it makes it sting a bit more- bet it feels fantastic!

My husband, the sadistic… charming gentleman… that he is, loves to flog or spank my ass until it’s all red and pimply, then run his fingernails over my reddened skin. Sometimes he’ll use our cat claw scratcher and he likes how I growl and mewl when he does it (note: I totally get a cathartic release as I growl all of my inner anger away, then melt into a purry, submissive puddle). He calls them “the good noises”.

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Once or twice she has used the Wartenberg pinwheel on my ass after she’s paddled it. Thats very nice too.

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I often cane/spank my husband, especially if he’s been naughty. I generally give him a few slaps on the butt after just to make him feel it

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@charlottesmith24 I like your style. Spanking after caning.

That must increase the pain and feel really sexy too!

Oh it definitely does for him, we both love it.

I have always wanted to receive an over-the-knee spanking from a lady while she wears a leather skirt/dress.

Feeling the leather on me would be amazing.

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I love being whipped and cropped, but my wife finds it difficult to emotionally let go and whip me “hard”.

I really would love for her to be a nasty bitch sometimes :heart:

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My wife is very much the same. She instinctively holds back unless I remind or ask her to go harder.

I never have to be reminded. I always go hard on my husband

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I do enjoy using the cane on my husband- it makes him feel so naughty when I tell him it’s caning for him

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