When the friend I used to visit gave me a caning/flogging, she would run her fingers over my buttocks and marked areas, which heightened the sensation for me. I found it very erotic.
Do you do similar?
Is it purely to add to the sensation or is it so the person doing the caning can assess the damage?
@Outdoorseyguy -I love to hear you got a good spanking and I do the same - after using the cane I will feel the mark with my fingers as the skin raises and my husband likes me do it as well …
It’s whatever the dominant what’s to do it for if they are more masochistic then it’s to inspect the work they are doing, if it’s for the pleasure, then it’s more sadistic. There’s just no hard rule.
On one of our recent sessions with our leather tawse, my o/h was somewhat concerned at how red I was. She decided to see if she could kiss it better. This then developed into quite a pleasant few minutes of rimming.
Our preferred style is CFNM and she spanks me, sometimes too hard.
If the roles are reversed she only tolerates light tickling and gentle flogging with our LH ‘nine-tails’ thingy.
My wife canes, floggs, whips, paddles, or crops me in groups of 10 strokes at a time (5 each side) then rubs the area with her hands to ease the discomfort before starting again.
Once she’s finished she may peg me making sure to rub her jeans or whatever clothing against my sore bum.
My husband, the sadistic… charming gentleman… that he is, loves to flog or spank my ass until it’s all red and pimply, then run his fingernails over my reddened skin. Sometimes he’ll use our cat claw scratcher and he likes how I growl and mewl when he does it (note: I totally get a cathartic release as I growl all of my inner anger away, then melt into a purry, submissive puddle). He calls them “the good noises”.