Hello All,
My name is Max, I’ve just joined so wanted to introduce myself and ask you all for your opinion on something.
I’m 47 Years old from Manchester (UK). I’m a lonely guy and I masturbate daily. My question is I get aroused by Transsexual, Femboy and Cross Dresser Porn. Make me think naturally I am gay. I met up with 3 men on separate occasion for sexual encounters but each time I couldn’t get aroused. In your opinion am I gay or not?
Does it really matter what label you give yourself?
I have been very happily married to a women for over 50 years. We have a very active and experimental sex life.
I wear women’s underwear permanently, I crossdress regularly, I am aroused by gay, sissy and trans girl porn and I love being pegged.
I am not physically or sexually attracted to men but I would love to have a real penis in my mouth and my ass.
I’m not sure what my label would be but I’m honestly not interested in having a label either.
The type of porn you watch isn’t necessarily an indication of what you want in real life. There are lots of people who are turned on by porn or fantasies that they wouldn’t want in real life at all. There are a lots of fantasies that I have which I definitely wouldn’t want to actually do! Your sexuality is not defined by your choice of porn but by who you are attracted to both romantically and physically in real life. Sexuality is a really broad spectrum and it can change over time so don’t rush to put a label on yourself.
Welcome to the forum Max!
Why need to put a label on it?! Are you still attracted to women? Maybe you are just Bicurious 
ultimately just enjoy being who you are regardless of labelling it 
Hello and welcome Max,
One thing I will say, maybe attraction for you is less about what they are and more about how they are? I’m bsexual myself but some and women just don’t do it for me - I like intelligence, a good sense of humour and someone who is not obsessed with their appearance. I’d keep an open mond and what will be, will be 
I just found it confusing that I liked it in the fantasy realm but was turned off in the physical realm
@MaxPower welcome to the forum. My partner transitioned to Male, we’re still together and I do not define myself as Gay because of our relationship. Be who you are, enjoy what you enjoy toss all the boxes away.
Thank You all for constructive and non judgemental responses.
I think you’re all right, it doesn’t have to be labelled
Hey @MaxPower, I’d say not. I do equally echo what Rockstar said, who needs labels 
And a very welcome to the forum
Hellooooo welcome
I can relate to a lot of what you said. I watch all kinds of different porn, including gay and some trans stuff. I know that I’m romantically and sexually attracted to women, but do have some sexual attraction towards men. I definitely have fantasies about having oral and anal sex with a man, but when I really think about it, it might be one of those things that are better left as a fantasy, especially now that I’m married.
Before I was married, I did do some cam to cam chatting with guys and jerked off with them, but it never progressed to actually meeting up with a guy, even though I definitely thought about it.
I think that the label that I most identified with was heteroflexible, but I agree with others that it’s not important to label it if you don’t want to.
I would say no as in other posts you have said that you get aroused by womens feet, also that you use prostitutes for sex and i am guessing that they are women. I think its telling that most things seem to get you aroused apart from when you met up with the guys when you didnt.
@Wood-Nymph Maybe you’re right as all responses have believed im not Yeah the prostitutes were all women. Regarding meeting up with those men it was with the intention of having sex as following the transsexual porn I thought I was gay. That being said when I tried a few times trying to masturbate over normal gay porn (that that I mean no Transexual, Femboy or Crossdresser) I couldn’t get around either. When it was “Manly” men I did nothing for me.
The crazy thing When I met up with 3 men was they were hard but they couldn’t get their socks in my bum. It’s like my cheeks were refusing to open and they 2 of them even tried lube 
. It was both funny and embarrassing for me.
@MaxPower Welcome to the forum.
Why pigeon hole yourself with a tag, just enjoy what you enjoy.
@DLJL That has been the concensus. I guess I was just wondering if I was.
Hi @MaxPower welcome to the forum!
I can’t help but notice the above comment. Please make sure to always use lube for anal - the anus is not self lubricating, so lube is essential to prevent injuries from occurring!