Hey does anyone else have troubles getting themselves to cum. I feel really embarrassed that I can't and would kimda like to yeast my oh.
Don’t be embarrassed. For most women, orgasms are a learnt skill not an automatic thing. Take some time, get yourself nice and relaxed and enjoy the sensations you are experiencing. As hard as it is, don’t focus on the end goal of the orgasm. Explore, literally millimetres can make the different between “that feels quite nice” “OMFG WOW” and “ouch that kinda hurts”. Change things up between your clitoris, your vulva more generally, your g spot, deeper internal play, anal, nipple stimulation. Try light touches, firm pressure, vibration, air pulse, tapping sensations. Try using erotic or porn to make you super turned on. Orgasm gels, tingle lubes, normal lubes. Explore yourself and enjoy the exploration
Kelly has given some great advice. It definitely takes practice and the more you know your body, the easier it will become. Just enjoy the sensations and don't focus on the end too much as it can make it harder to climax. When I'm really in the mood, I'll cum too quickly if I let myself so I like to stop and take the pressure off so I can build up the pleasure for an even better orgasm. Maybe it's something to try? Good luck.
The aka for your advice Kelly I really appreciate it. I will start to explore myself, we I feel embarrassed to so ir,how silly is that. Am 27 so feel like I should know my own body but don't much really.kelly_michelle wrote:
Don’t be embarrassed. For most women, orgasms are a learnt skill not an automatic thing. Take some time, get yourself nice and relaxed and enjoy the sensations you are experiencing. As hard as it is, don’t focus on the end goal of the orgasm. Explore, literally millimetres can make the different between “that feels quite nice” “OMFG WOW” and “ouch that kinda hurts”. Change things up between your clitoris, your vulva more generally, your g spot, deeper internal play, anal, nipple stimulation. Try light touches, firm pressure, vibration, air pulse, tapping sensations. Try using erotic or porn to make you super turned on. Orgasm gels, tingle lubes, normal lubes. Explore yourself and enjoy the exploration
@hunnymonster29 I definitely think am going to try something we've only just discovered by accident I like nipple simulation but maybe thats cos minw are big 🤫 n small boobs no idea. Honestly thought I'd be able to know what to do at my age and what gets myself going guess I'll go learn my body. Thanks for not being all judgy guys :)