Hi everyone sorry if I'm repeating any previous posts but I'm posting this on my mobile.
I never have any problems cumming from clit or g spot orgasms during sex or solo play (oral I enjoy but cannot cum from) I like very hard straight thrusting but have been experimenting with thrusting and whilst pulling dildo out rubbing against the edge of my vagina (towards my clit but whilst still penetrated) if that makes sense?! But since getting a glass dildo I cannot cum, it is the absolute best feeling but if I go fast or hard it just hurts especially with the alternate thrusting I mentioned. They seem to be too hard to go fast, so any tips? Or do I need a straighter one as i think the curved one is missing my g spot (when I use it straight on) as mine is v close to the entrance? Using it at angle feels better but is hard to get a good thrust on. Sorry for garbled message but trying to give as much detail as possible!
It may just be the case that glass dildos just arn't for you, when it comes to g-spot orgasms. Don't worry though, you just have to work out what suits you. Or you just need to get use to it.
How about try warming the glass dildo up? Putting it in very warm water for a few mins and then try masturbating with it?
With curved glass I found I had to use it in reverse, ie the curve was pointing towards my bottom, in order to have it hit my g-spot consistently. Have you tried flipping it?
Have you considered the girth of your glass toy? If it isn't as thick as your other toys or partner you may need to look for something girthier to actually be able to hit the spot. With typically thin glass dildos I often feel like they just poke around and miss everything. One with a good bulbous head may hit your g-spot more accurately? A broader tip also hurts less when you are thrusting harder as there is more surface area.
What kind of dildos were you using previously? If they were flexible (silicone, etc), then that might be why you were able to get away with rough thrusting without it hurting. Glass is pretty solid, so jabbing away at yourself roughly will probably just be uncomfortable. Try slowing down with the dildo and giving yourself orgasms other ways, and I +1 Blueeyes' suggestion of adding temperature play with the dildo as well (hot or cold, a new sensation might add another dimension to your orgasm.) But if your body is hard set on only cumming from very rough, straight thrusting you might need to stick to softer toys and relegate your glass dildo to the foreplay section.
Hi thanks for the advice everyone. I did try different temperatures and managed to o when it was cold but did hurt myself at the end (oops) so I'll see if my guy can get it to work for me this weekend otherwise as you say it'll be downgraded to a foreplay toy only as my guy said he loved how wet and frustrated I am after using glass haha!