Caught masturbating by partner?

Just wondering if or how often married couples or couples living together catch each masturbating, or if it always hidden and kept a secret.

I have caught my husband a few times over the years, usually in the shower and he’s walked in on me a couple of times but not for quite a while now. Except last weekend when he caught me using a sex toy (I though he was outside in the garden and he managed to sneak in!). He thought it was great and I was just a bit embarrassed as it hasn’t happened for a while.

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Would love to catch my wife (though she doesn’t masturbate). Also wouldn’t mind her catching me. Just not sure how she’d react!

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We have each walked in while the other was masturbating… It’s exciting! We enjoy watching each other very much.

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I’ve caught him a few times having a wank. I love watching him definitely a turn on, I especially like it when I get to clean him up afterwards :smirking_face:

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For me if H is home I tell him when I’m going to have a play. He knows it my private time unless he gets an invite to join at the start, or a message a bit later. So, he’s never caught me, lol

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There is no “catching” for us.

We tell each other what we’re going to do and invite them to spectate if they wish but its never done in secret.

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I bet he did enjoy it, did he stay to watch you or did you stop once he found you? As a male it is a great occasion seeing the wife enjoying herself. @newbiejen

The only time my wife masturbate is during sex, if we’re finishing with mutual masturbation.

The only time I do it alone is when she’s away with work, but she does tell me what to watch, and i make video it for her to watch back later.

Never caught my partner, ever. Perhaps she doesn’t if I’m around? I just don’t know. She’s almost caught me a few times. So close on a couple of occasions that she must have suspected. She’s never said anything, though. Funny, but we’ve never discussed it. :wink:

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I randomly find this on my list of things I wanna experience when I finally have a relationship! To be the one who walks in on the other playing with themselves :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

Neither has caught the other. I wouldn’t mind catching her, in fact i would find it a massive turn on just thinking that she does it. I wouldnt mind her catching me

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We’ve both caught one another before now. He pinned me down and ate me until my soul separated from my body and I sucked him while he watched porn then rode him to a mutual orgasm to finish. He slept well after that :rofl:

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Never been caught or the catcher, like with above we tell each other, if im tired he might say I think I’ll take care of myself so I know, and vice versa.

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My x wife caught me once, and didn’t judge me for it. In fact if she didn’t want any sex, she’d tweak my nipples for me while I jacked off in front of her, it was amazing. She’d ask me what I was fantasizing about and play along with me. One quality that was cool about her.

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Been nearly caught a couple of times by my wife
One memorable time she was in bed
I was naked in cam with a Skype buddy in our study area
I’d been fingering myself n close to my climax
Heard her move around
She was at the top of the stairway and asked if I was heading to bed soon
I managed to scramble and my top on
Popped my head out the study door and replied
I never did catch up with the guy to finish it off lol

We do masturbate together but I don’t think she has really ‘caught’ me doing it, maybe once or twice when we first moved in together and I usually do it when she is not around if needed.

I catch her now and again but I usually have an idea when she is doing it so I give her some privacy! We’ve talked about it before and I know she likes or needs her private time with her vibrator so if she is in the bedroom with the door closed in the daytime I’ll leave her to it as I have a good idea what she is doing :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

I was caught once while my wife was in the shower. She had slept naked that night and I was super turned on but there wasn’t an opportunity for us to have sex that morning. I didn’t realise she had come out of the shower and the bathroom door was ajar. She saw me and smiled. I told her that was the effect she had had on me and I think she liked that.

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I’ve been caught stroking my morning wood, I think she likes it as it usually turns into morning sex. We both master bate at different times during play. It not only turns me on to watch my wife, but it also teaches me what she like. I have never caught her solo.

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Ah! This did happen to me one-time. It was when a former girlfriend walked in on me while I was tossing myself-off in the bathroom sink. Actually, she just smiled and then finished me off, as she looked at my facial expression of pure ecstasy in the mirror!

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I caught my hubby once in the shower, he had original asked he to join him but I declined but had intended to surprise him

Well I definitely surprised him when I walked in the bathroom naked ready to join him as he was masturbating

I did join him and helped him for a while then wanted to watch him finish himself off

It was such a turn on

I’ve never been caught but I don’t masturbate as much as hubby

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