Me and partner looking for tips/ideas on rough play/cbt/Ballbusting I’ve always had a thing for it and recently it’s become regular in our love making and my partner really does enjoy inflicting on me but is still cautious, what tips ideas can anyone give, she really wants to try the idea of heels which is a massive turn on for me at thought, anyone else here into it and what do you enjoy about it?took me a while to admit it as I felt slightly ashamed at the fantasy/ideas I felt
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Rough play is good but take care on ball busting - I would suggest you try ball spanking first - she ties off your balls and hold them in one hand while using a ruler or similar to spank them with
I would not do this myself as my husband’s balls are sensitive but I often spank his penis 
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We have a ball crusher and a Humbler. That’s quite a thing to be trapped in.
Yikes - Maybe check out what a stiletto heel does to a water balloon before trying it too enthusiastically on your balls! 
@batjamboree 's advice sounds an excellent place to start.
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I agree with @batjamboree to take care on the ball busting as it’s a very delicate place to easily inflict injury so if do explore more into this be sure to go steady!
There’s been many a horror story of a guy having someone walk on his balls with heels and cause of the adrenaline he didn’t realise until the POP! He had literally busted a ball 
I had a sub once who wanted me to get into ball busting with him and I refused, as others said one wrong move and it could lead to a life-changing injury. CBT can be fun (a handjob with tiger balm can be unforgettable for days!) but ball busting is a hard limit for me. I hope you have fun though 
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She’s seen the humbler and took a keen interest,she also felt it would be good use during pegging
Yeah I do feel it could be drastic don’t think the heel as such is the agenda just the idea and her wearing them during kinky play maybe some light taps etc not the stiletto to the sack so much
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Yeah I understand don’t think the route of her weigh in the heels etc is the real idea maybe more the sight of her in them whilst other light stuff happens the idea is a big turn on for me but in reality think it’s a step too far
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Boot fetishes and worship are common and there is absolutely nothing wrong in that
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Have to admit I fancy getting a humbler @rockstar. Do you like it?
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I love the idea of a lady squeezing and spanking my balls with her leather gloves on.
I do know a lady who was a Domme and told me a man asked her to nail his scrotum to a wooden board. I am not sure if she carried it through.
The spanking/squeezing has been done to me the spanking/slapping inflicts quite some pain as it’s more of a sting than anything else,and few week ago during love making in doggy style she squeezed as I was about to orgasm and it was a very intense orgasm to say the least
Not keen on the idea of my scrotum nailed to something though bit far for me that
I have heard of stinging nettles being used.
I would hate that.
Think il pass on that too
It’s tricky to get in to (bits get nipped if you’re not careful) but once you’re in it certainly lives up to its name.
You can’t fully straighten up without doing yourself damage, hence its name.
You can get them with chains linked to ankle cuffs if that’s something that appeals.
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Maybe just have a play around with it and perhaps even if she isn’t wearing the heels she then could have more free movement to tease parts of your body safely
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I would love a bit of pain in the balls, but being kicked/kneed in the balls would be something I would hate.
Does anyone here like having their balls tied on a rope/leash, or love doing it to their man? Leading them wherever they wish.
I do like the thought of having that done to me.
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I have seen a few porn videos of Dommes burning mens’ cocks and balls with cigarettes and even branding them.
Flippin’ 'eck!
I’ve used ball weights and ball stretchers and we have a ball strap attached to a lead so that she can pull me around by the balls.
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