Have just posted a recent experience/adventure in āVisiting Male Maidā which describes my vivit into paid servitude.I was allowed a release from my cage for the afternoon and both gave and received some sexy attention.It will be decided on thursday how much longer myself and wifeās friend husband are to be locked and denied.My wife is now in need of a good seeing to by cock as she puts it whereas her friend has been serviced by our dirty old man friend āMaid Wrightā as her husband sat and watched.I am slowly but surely getting more and more addicted to this lifestyle and chastity and could quite easily go another month (especially after my session last thursday which gave me some relief for a while) but wife is in need.I will wait and see what she has in mind.Maybe the seven and a half inch cock of a dirty old man will be in her thoughts.Would i indeed be able to see her get well and truly taken.I did watch her masturbate her friends husband to completion.I also enjoyed watching that dirty old man finger her to orgasm.But,full sex to orgasm is a lot bigger step so it is probs best left as a fantasy to go in the wank bank for the time when i am once again freed from my cage.
Looking forward to hearing about your adventures edited by mod It seems like you have a nice little group of friends that know how to have a good time.
Yes,itās now a little group of five of us who all get along really well.2 married couples and a single older male.I never believed my wife would ever be this sexually adventerous and it is a lot of fun indeed.She will never go the whole way with anyone else but is quite happy to indulge most other things.She had a ālittle adventureā earlier which i will post in the How Horny feed if i get a few more minutes. edited by mod
I read your (now deleted) post in "How hornyā¦).
You can stay in chastity even if your wife needs PIV.
I used to keep my cage on but wear a dildo harness with my cage tucked down between my legs.
If she needed the real thing I would remove my cage but stay in āhonour chastityā by not being allowed to come. That was probably the hardest thing Iāve ever done but definitely the most exciting.
Having her ride me to multiple orgasms while desperately trying to hold myself back was a very special thing for us and took chastity to a whole new level.
It made me feel used and objectified in a wonderful way.
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I tried a true beginners one today (competitor, true caveat emptor moment), a real adult novelty rather than a true device. It worked quite well at first but broke after a few hours.
Shame, I was enjoying that liminal feeling of being between states and that hyperawareness of being contained. Its a really trippy feeling of being locked away to prevent activity but with the near constant stimulation of having something there. I can see how people could get addicted.
Latest chastity update.I am now on my third period of chastity and caged once again.I was allowed release last weekend for the saturday only.My wifes friend and caged husband joined us as did our older male friend.I was told if i wanted this third period of caging i was to go once again without penetratative sex but my wife needed a little bit more than my oral attentions to sustain her needs.She really enjoys my oral worship but says she is missing cock.Her friend is now receiving the older mans cock on a weekly basis and they have developed their marriage into a cuckold one with the husband enjoying it a whole lot more than he thought he would.Having indulged with my previous wife i know just how delicious this lifestyle can be given the right circumstances and couple.My wife still does not want full sex with anyone else but once again was more than happy to let the old man suck her breasts and finger her off as i watched. edited by mod
I tried a silicone device a few months ago which was too big and whilst it was nice to introduce it it didnāt really work.
However, last week I ordered a Nano resin cage which is great, it came with a strap which I love the look of. I wore it without my partner knowing on and off for a few days then told her about it and weāve had some fun with it. Weāre only using the plastic locks for now as Iām a bit scared of the actual lock and getting stuckā¦
We had some D/S play a few nights ago and I was on my knees infront of her naked except for my cage and my collar. She made me explain why the other cage wasnāt suitable and laughed as I said it was too big - she knows I love SPH. She said she likes the look of this one so hopefully more fun to come.
Got a metal cage from [competitor] to try it out as metal seems to be rated here.
It looks cool, got what I paid for in terms of build quality but with some light adjustments , got things to line up.
I understand metal is heavier than resin / silicone but is it meant to be so heavy its is pulling everything down? If so, is that safe?
Or does that mean it should be a smaller ring size or would that make no difference?
Pulling down is good. You get a constant reminder that itās there and constant gentle stimulation.
If it pulls off under its own weight then the gap between the front and back rings is too big. Your testicles shouldnāt be able to pull through the gap.
It may be that the back ring is too big but I often had to bend my cages a little to close up that gap once Iād found the correct rear ring size.
Thanks again @rockstar for the tips and reassurance. The weight is supported when Im sitting down, Im still at that point where I have to check things are ok when Im wearing it during the day. The pull isnt to the point where its falling off, though I can get 2 and a half out if I do pull it further down, the other testicle still stays put so its not completely off with intervention!
I have my resin and metal one now and tried a silicone / TPR one so getting a feel for what works best. I havent shown my OH the metal one yet but she liked the resin one.
As of the start of this week me and the Mrs are trying out more long term chastity. I found the website ā The Secret to a Happy Marriageā (donāt think I can share the link?) thatās giving us a great starting point and talking points to try it out going forward
Iām on day 5 of fully locked (let out daily for a clean) and thus far we are both enjoying the results. All started with a good pegging while locked at the start of the week, Iāve not had any release yet and sheās reaped the benefits of multiple climaxes this week from tongue or dildo. Looking forward to see how far we take it!
Permanent chastity was a game changer for our relationship. She learned that she was dominant and I found out that I was submissive. The wonderful headspace I attained after weeks of orgasm denial was amazing and,as you say, she reaped the benefits in terms of orgasms.
After almost 5 years I had to remove the cage for unrelated medical reasons but we still practice the chastity lifestyle but with extra impact play, role reversal and feminisation for me.
Enjoy.
We havenāt played around with his cage since last Locktober but Iām working away this week and he is working from home so we thought it might be a good time to try it again. He agreed and has said it does help him not to masturbate.
He came twice yesterday and we put it on earlier today and the plan is for him to wear it until next Saturday which will be 6 days.
Did you lock him?
Iām day 8 into it and the longest Iāve ever been continuously locked. So far itās been mostly pleasurable! Sadly going to have to take it off this weekend as Iām away for a lads weekend and honestly think I feel alittle sad about removing it for the 3 days
Yes we did and took it off earlier today, which was 6 days total. He said it was ok, pleasurable at times and frustrating at others when he was feeling aroused.
I have 3 cages, still looking for āthe oneā. I love the feeling when I wear one. I feel restricted and safe. Really hard to put it in words.
Well my husband what to butt plug me for vaginal chastity, and i said no unless he was in chastity as well, so he reluctantly agree thinking he had the better of me, so he was fitted with a metal cage which to his dismay had a 5āā urethral tube attachment with it, well it went on so well and then he was lubed and i fixed the tube down into his penis and lock it in place, i had to fit him first incase he refused after i was fitted first, my turn came so i was lubed and he produced a pear plug which is widen once inserted in side by pushing the center and it opens like an umbrella and then locked, i told him my sister husband would be holding both keys until my sister decided to open us. he wasānt happy but had to put up with it, he got what he wanted me plug locked, and he paid a price,
Sounds great but just be careful with them urethral tubes, need to be kept clean and well maintained or you can get a fair few issues if being worn long term!
Yes those tubes can cause some nasty infections. Hubbys father has a nasty water infection and he had to take a sample to hospital and hubby said it looked like gravy. Also not sure about the one you have inside you, i would not be happy. How do you clean yourself after going to the toilet? which could lead to a water infection for yourself.
Also i have to ask why did he want you to be in chastity, does he not trust you?