Hi,so much has happened it will take a while to update although in next couple of days full update will be forthcoming.I can confirm at the moment though i am back in chastity as is my wife’s friend’s husband.The wives are considering keeping us this way for the whole of the year.Been busy with work and also a house move taking a lot of time.Also everytime i try to post update i get horny and it can be quite uncomfortable 
but will post later or tomorrow.
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I got my first test cage yesterday and learned a lot as well as having questions, like what are the little number tags for? Do they attach to the key?
It’s hard to balance a device thats meant to hinder erections when trying to fit it generates one!
Maybe one to try after a shower when everything is loose as it was difficult getting things to stay where they were meant to.
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The numbered plastic tags are for when (if) you need to go through airport security/metal detectors wearing your cage. This does take as read that the cage is plastic, of course!
As for fitting, I’ve found that if you’re getting erect while trying to fit your device, try going into a squatting position while breathing slowly, and make a tight fist with your free hand. Both these techniques exercise muscle groups that will help you lose your erection long enough to lock yourself away. At least, that’s what works for me
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They replace the metal lock when you have to pass through a metal detector.
They are numbered so that your keyholder can see how many times you’ve removed the lock.
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Oh, so they work like cable ties and have to be snipped (carefully) to be removed?
Thanks for the tip, @Sexterminator. I’ll see if I can try again when I get a quiet moment.
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More like a one time use security tag
They way if it’s broken the key holder knows something might have been tampered with…
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Quick update, it’s on and lots of mixed feelings and practicalites I wanted to check with more experienced users.
One, this feels like its easy to remove the main part by pulling it away so it feels more symbolic than fully locked away.
I managed to warm up enough to fit things in, this doesn’t cut circulation does it? Its a little red but that could be chafing when putting on ( lesson learned on importance of shaving!). I know with proper cock rings they shouldnt be on for more than 20 mins, but chastity cages can be longer? It feels like blood flow is still there but its all very new.
For something thats meant to inhibit, Im very aware of its presence! Does this go with time or is that part of the deal?
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If you can remove it easily without unlocking it then it’s the wrong size. Possibly the rear ring needs to be smaller or the gap between the two rings needs to be smaller. I used to bend my metal cages to get the best fit.
I used to wear mine from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to bed.
I Locktober I used to wear it 24/7 for the whole month. If it fits correctly it doesn’t cut off the circulation.
Mind you I used to wear stainless steel cages which are easier to keep clean while still wearing them.
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I would be nervous about going smaller but I’ll give it a try next time I put it on.
I wasnt sure my wife would like it but she reminded me we have discussed it before so its not a surprise or a worry.
Another unexpected find on this, is I have never been so aware of my testicles as I have wearing the cage!
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Tried a smaller size, same issue, will need to try again once more relaxed to see if the smaller one works better (2).
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I know what you mean re: escapability, as you can simply pull your penis out of the tube. For a truly inescabable chastity device, you would need one with a PA (Prince Albert) attachment, but ofc that depends on your level of dedication!
Thanks, this is dabbling so that may be overkill! Its snug enough to stay on, Im more concerned about the testicles, its cold so things are a little tight and it feels like it runs the risk of acting like a full on cock ring with all the risks of trapping blood flow.
I wore it for a few hours one day this week with some regular readjustments. It’s been a trippy ride.
Chastity update.Four weeks ago plus a day we were uncaged.The extra day was to enable us all to be together it being a saturday.I have tried to post a few times earlier but the events took such a turn it kept reading like a piece of erotica.Our older male friend joined us,this time dressed as a French Maid in similar style to us.He was there to photograph the proceedings and have another enjoyable voyeur experience.To win my release i did indeed suck my wife’s friend’s husband off swallowing his come much to the delight of everyone there.After this i was also uncaged.Our older friend “Maid Wright” seemed very turned on by watching me perform my duty judging by the way his cock had tented out his knickers.Not to be outdone my wife’s friend beckoned him over,pulled down his knickers and performed oral sex on him much to the surprise of us all.We do have a pretty much adhered to no sex/touching rule despite all the titillation and flashing but were told afterwards as he was outside of our little group all was well.Plus,they had discussed a mild delve into cuckolding and this seemed the ideal oppurtunity.I was asked if i wanted to come and replied i really did need release.My wife’s friend had come as she had fingered herself as she gave the BJ.My wife and I were now the only ones not to have had release.I was told to sit in the armchair and my wife went and sat by the older man.What happened next quite surprised me,she lowered her knickers and opened her legs.I was told i could masturbate as i watched but if i did not want my wife to enjoy being fingered by an old man i was only to say stop and that would be that.However if i did i would be back in the cage without coming.I enjoyed a really good wank,wife enjoyed her fingering and the “Maid” enjoyed feeling up a woman almost half his age.By now we had all come and sat around drinking and talking before our guests left.My wife was a little concerned afterwards about allowing herself to be used by another and almost forcing the issue but i told her i had thoroughly enjoyed the whole thing.My only concern was the fact i was to be caged again only if i had brought a halt to her being felt up.My wife looked at me strangely and asked if i wanted to be caged again.I told her i certainly did and that my head was in such a place now i felt so in her control and so owned that there was no other way i could live at this moment in time.My wife agreed it had been the best and most special time in her life ever and had really enjoyed having a sex slave.She also told me it had made me into an even more loving and caring person,more than she could have ever thought possible.She also told me my journey into femininty was wonderful and the fact i was becoming more and more “ladylike” was a joy to behold even though for the past few weeks i was more like an enslaved Sissy.I have now been back in a cage for a month and this time my chastity is in a much more feminine state.My breast enhancement has been increased substantially as we both now agree i need a bigger pair of breasts even though they are quite noticeable now.Her friends husband is also back in chastity and they have taken their cuckolding one step further as “Maid Wright” has now had sex with her twice whilst her husband watched.We still have our weekly get togethers but keep the no sex rule in place just for the four of us.“Maid Wright” has also expressed a desire i attend his home sometime in the future dressed as a sexy maid to do some housework and cooking for him.I expect he will want a little more than this and my wife has agreed and thinks it is a wonderful idea.It really is as @rockstar posts,Chastity/Caging is addictive.No time limit has been set,instead my wife will tell me when she has thought of a price i must pay to once again win release.I will post again when this occurs.
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“She also told me it had made me into an even more loving and caring person,more than she could have ever thought possible.”
That was the best thing for me too.
Once you are in chastity you start sublimating your own sexual desires on to your partner and become much more intimate and caring.
I miss it terribly sometimes.
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I have gained a whole lot from it,hence once again being caged.Wife has found new found sexual freedoms and enjoyment too.She was always very shy and without much experience.Now she has blossomed into a very confident woman both as a person and sexually.Myself,i do not feel like a woman in a male body wanting to change sex but i do love my ever blossoming feminine side.I love wearing feminine attire,outerwear as well as lingerie.It feels lovely to wear,it feels sexy and it feels right.I now have a lovely little pair of breasts which are continuing to develop nicely.All these lovely feelings and situations are amplified greatly by now being in chastity and living to please the love of my life and knowing she “could not be happier”.I have now been told this chaste period will be six weeks whereupon i will be given a new task to perform to win another 24 hours freedom and climax.Once again i must confirm this is absolutely,totally addictive and anyone wanting to try,please read posts from @rockstar and myself as you will be hooked.
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I have saved this amazing story in my own personal erotic library along with some from Kinky Mira and a couple of others.
Thank you.
Keep them coming.
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I’m not into guys, I could never do this with my OH, I couldnt handle seeing my OH doing this to another guy edited by mod
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Wow!
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Yes,i too am of the same feelings in not being attracted to guys.However when i am “Penelope” and full on femme or Sissy and obeying the commands of my Mistress a different mind set kicks in.When there are a few of you dressed up,all horny and not having come (us guys anyways) for a while in the heat of the moment things are different for sure and things an happen!Really glad you enjoyed reading about our little adventures as much as we are loving experiencing them.I know most of what we are doing is quite tame compared to some of the adventures posted by other wonderful and liberated members on this forum but it is a great turn on for us all even so.Thank you for reading and posting as it further adds to my wife’s ever broadening sexuality and confidence knowing sex a little bit different is perfectly OK.The wife got really turned on knowing she was some of the cause of “making a mess” for you. edited by mod
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Further update.This could actually be posted in Visiting Male Maid but will put on here to keep events more in order.Once again our older male friend “Maid Wright” has expressed a desire to have a Maid round for housework and cooking a meal.Next thursday is the agreed date and will be noon until six pm.Dusting,cleaning and cooking are to be my tasks.When i enquired what his uniform requirements are he requested short French Style Maid along with stockings and suspenders.He has also suggested black high heels as well to complete the look.A further suggestion which had my wife grinning and giggling was that i am to arrive uncaged from chastity for the duration of my visit.My wife has been teasing me as to what else he will be asking to be cleaned.I am strangely really looking forward to whatever will happen in a weeks time.It is going to be another week of agony wondering.We also have our weekly meet up on saturday with our friends.Hearing her describe her latest sex session with “Maid Wright” and all the juicy details with her husband sat next to her will be heady stuff indeed.
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