I am sorry, she will cheat, you might has well accept that. She is 18, she clearly enjoys sex outside of a relationship, and she is very likely to do it on the holiday. Her friends will be having sex and she will feel horny and will get chatted up.
The trick, I feel, is for you to accept this as part of her and not something which is a threat to your relationship. Just accept that she has a bit more sexual experience now and enjoy that. You are both very young and just learn from each other. Don’t get caught up thinking about things that don’t really matter.
I couldn’t just accept that someone is going to cheat on me, I couldn’t be in a relationship with that person as we obviously would want different things.
I dont know if this counts aa ‘cheating’ but i was on a hen weekend with the girls and the stripper arrived and ‘did his thing’ at the end of it he got some of us to lick whipped cream of his cock. Plenty of us did and we were married and with partners etc.
I told my hubby when we got back and he came super hard that night.
I think this is a weird one ……. Personally I would too if my partner told me this, but……… it’s a different scenario imo you are with a group of friends generally having fun and even though it’s a strip show it’s not necessarily sexual! ……… I don’t know though, if it was hidden from me I would be really hacked off and hurt. But maybe for me it’s different as I would be happy for the OH to experiment with other people M/F as long as we’re open about it etc but that’s a different story
I think a descussion with the OH about how your feeling is really needed before she goes on holiday
I believe all the now ‘anon’ usernames were all the same person with multiple accounts (❗ New rule - Sock Puppet accounts) so we’ll likely never know how the story was supposed to end.
I only mean in this case, not all anonymised people. Accounts can be anonymised for a variety of reasons, including if you request it yourself rather than asking for your stuff to be deleted. It’s a good way of keeping topics and conversations intact even if you’ve decided you no longer want to have an account on here (which is a nice option to have ).
Very useful actually to see the Sock Puppet thing in action… I still don’t get the point. Seriously, who has the time to have a three way conversation with themselves on a public forum, achieving, as far as I can see, nothing.
I’ve mentioned it before, but I think that’s one of the good things about this place. Ultimately good advice is good advice, no matter the source of the question.
I did cheat on a girls holiday when I was 18. It was a very silly thing to do but I was very young and naive. I am aware that it does happen a lot though