I really want to christen all the rooms in our house, but I’m just unsure how to initiate with my hubby (pathetic really).
We are hoping to conceive in the not to distant future so I want our lovemaking to be exciting & fun. I’m hoping if the pressure isn’t there to conceive things will happen naturally.
We haven’t been actively trying yet, so my thoughts are by mixing thing’s up from the outset of actively trying it may help.
Hints, tips, advice all welcome 
! Thanks all in advance x
Hiya — can’t really offer any ideas, but coming from experience of the ‘trying to concieve’ front - definately try not to make a big thing out of it. We now have two beautiful children, both through IVF - however the trying to concieve part was a killer for me (and my wife) - it eventually become a clinical act with my oh only wanting to try sex on the right days - this puthuge pressure on both of us and very much killed our sex life at that point.
I honestly think that if we could have ‘relaxed into it’ and hadn’t made such a big thing of it, we may have conceived naturally (as there was nothing found wrong with either of us)
Sorry - waffling…but in short maybe just try to keep having loving, fun sex regularly - forgetting about logging what days are the best days…just do it all the time then hopefully it’ll not out pressure on either of you and you’ll get what you want!
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Sorry - on the ideas front, maybe make up a list/challenge that you can both add to the list / then set a goal of maybe ticking off a couple a week.
My wife struggles initiating too - so sitting together can working through some fun stuff together. Ight help - and might make you more confident in the future too!
Thanks so much, I’m very grateful for shared information from members who have been in similar situations.
It’s a good starting point. I’ve invested in some dice from Lovehoney the ones with the room options. Hoping, they will help initially
I was told it was very highly unlikely that I would have children, when I was 16 I had a blood test cos my periods were irregular, I had PCOS, I’m now married with 3 children, when we wanted to try he said if it happens it happens, easier said than done, but we relaxed tried not to stress too much about it, we had sex every other day and just had a lot of fun with it.
With the christening of every room, we both picked a room each, and left a present in the room, and what ever was in the present we used it during sex, like cuffs, rope, dildo, whip, it was so much fun, the sex was hot, and different positions, we didn’t tell each other when we’ll do it, we just said he’s a present for you 
Why not be forthright and tell him, you want to fun things up a bit and you want to ride him in every room in the house .
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Just enjoy wild raunchy sex and let the conceiving bit look after its self…worst thing to do, is making it too structured and clinical.
Just enjoy.!!
The first room I did was the lounge. I came down not wearing panties sat on him and ended up shagging him on the sofa.
Then at some point later, he said about me bent over the sink and how sexy I looked and he wanted to jump me, and I said he should. So he did.
After that, a spreadsheet was involved, and we’ve done the same for each house since.
There is something about coming up behind and shagging MrsIwill while she is at the kitchen sink that is so very naughty.
When we was at my mum’s once, she went out to the supermarket, I was loading the dishwasher and he come up behind me pulled my leggings down, and just went for it
Hi,
Like many people have said try not to put to much pressure on yourselves when you finally do decide you want to conceive as it can just put pressure on you both.
As for the room fun I would suggest maybe wearing something that will get your other half’s pulse racing. Maybe a bra and pants or a teddy. Come down covered over and slowly reveal what’s underneath.
My partner has done it a lot to me and I never can resist so she’s normally over the sofa or on the rug in the living room.
Things are better when spontaneous.
@Crake85
Welcome to the forum subject threads.
Sharing a shower would be easiest(depending on its size), wash each other and take it from there.
Most other rooms might just require abit of teasing touches while sat on the sofa etc.
If you have some lingerie or very short skirts, wear some around the house, such as doing the dishes etc. If he can see some bare flesh beneath the skirt then he will be all over you(pretty nice invitation lol)
An idea for the kitchen, very short bottoms/skirt or even nothing, on all fours inspecting under the sink, shout him in and ask him to come and have a look at the ‘problem’…
Or maybe sit on the kitchen table with nothing on the bottom half with a chair ready for him to sit on right in front of you!
As for trying to conceive I wish you the best of luck 
Thanks for all the suggestions.
I hadn’t thought about wearing my lingerie as a way to initiate things. I’ve got a great selection, teddies, crotchless sets, one pieces etc.
I’m really keen to do it in our living room, sofa & floor. Wanna do it on dinning room table as well.
Any of you experienced members used a dinning room table??
I wanna be lying on the table with hubby standing in front so we have eye contact throughout.
We are going on a staycation next week, so I’m really looking forward to us having quality time. Obviously, time at home is quality just not in the same way. Sure you can all relate to that x
Thanks again for anymore responses. Loving the forum x
Firstly you have a great idea and once in action I’m confident you’ll have every room knocked out quickly!
Not done on dining table but have on counter. Recall her not being so comfy so maybe bring a pillow to lay back on. Can even position a chair on either side with you in middle so you have something to set feet on for support. Just pondering positions. Could have fun with it, say dinner is ready and you be propped on table wearing nothing under an opened robe when he walks over. As far as other rooms the lingerie surely will entice. Or don’t let him know what you’re wearing but call him in for assistance on one thing or another. You have a staycation, maybe certain rooms each day? He’ll get the gist quick and I’m guessing be more than happy to comply.
I could go on and on! Have fun and let us know it worked out 
We’ve got plenty of throws which hopefully will help soften up the table surface , plus go on our living room rug. Along with the cushions too.
Anything else needed???
The dining table is great place. I can ride my wife while she is lying on it ( ankles on my shoulders)and I’m just standing and thrusting deeply. Dining chair ( your hubby sitting ) and if your legs reach the floor you can just go for it. Also sitting on his lap ( back to him ) on the chair is really hot.
Just be aware. The house we’re in has paper-thin connecting walls, we can hear next door’s conversations! If yours is the same, pick your time carefully… My wife likes to either reach over and gently (sometimes not very gently!) grab my crotch, or if she can she’ll slowly unbuckle my belt and undo my jeans to let me know she’s in the mood. Sometimes it’s a carefully worded comment, or even just her tone of voice (she knows how to make me hard with a single word!). Or she’ll just come down the stairs naked. That one’s a bit obvious. Other times I’ll take hold of her and lead her to where I want her, or slide my hand inside her clothes and go from there. If you use a shower, sharing is a great way to get things hot and wet. Good luck!
We are really lucky, the house is detached on a corner plot. Woodlands to one side, one neighbour to the other side. A school at the back of the house, and flats in the front that partially over look the property.
We never tend to hear the neighbours from inside there property. So hopefully they won’t be able to hear us either. Hubby is currently away working in his office, not home til tomorrow evening. Him coming home can’t come around quick enough tho.
Then we are off on a staycation Saturday, four days in a self-catering lodge & three days in a hotel. So it’s gonna be at least seven days before I can put a plan into action for the house 
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However, I’m planning on packing my lingerie so it can come out whilst we’re away. I’ve got quite a few new pieces to wear. So hopefully they will initiate the baby making subconsciously (if that makes sense). Conceiving is part of the plan now, but like I’ve said it’s being put into our lovemaking subconsciously. Not going to be ruled by timing of ovulation etc. I’m hoping these other plans will just help with the baby making & that will happen naturally (if that makes sense).
Hope you have a great time, in every sense.